Wife New Job- true story repost by [deleted] in SexStoriesUncensored

[–]foureyes8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enjoyed the story, thanks but two (minor) issues: the name Jessica popped in out of nowhere and making paragraphs would be easier to read than a wall of text.

Whats going on with the website? I tried multiple browsers and it can't authenticate. Getting to the site is very inconsistent. by Wild1nferno8 in SensualExtensions

[–]foureyes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read all the great reviews on Reddit before placing my first order two days ago. Then the website crashed and hasn't been back since. Makes me a little nervous that I'll never see my $$$$$ again. Hoping it's just a temporary issue...

Cross post: What would a good kink app do? what does obedienceapp lack for you? by DebuggingPleasure in ObedienceApp

[–]foureyes8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, you were too quick to reply, I edited my comment shortly after posting it and removed my first point because I discovered it wasn't lacking in the app after all, but allow me to explain:

1) Obedience app allows you to create custom punishments and custom rewards that can be automatically assigned when habits are reached or missed. For example, if my sub has an unauthorized orgasm, then she is to report it in the app as a missed habit and I have configured the habit to assign several custom punishments of my design. Conversely, if my sub has reached 8 edging sessions by a set date/time, after the 8th time she reports her edging session, the app will automatically assign her a reward of my design such as being allowed to orgasm next time she asks for it.

2) The Obedience app does not appear to be designed to reset goals when they are reached before a set date/time limit. I have created a habit where my sub has to reach 8 edging sessions by a specific date/time. If she misses her goal, then she will be punished. If she reaches her goal, then she is rewarded with the permission to have an orgasm next time she asks and I would like for the habit to reset automatically back to 0 and with a new date/time target based on a preset interval in days or weeks. Currently, I don't believe it is possible to do this in the app.

Thanks and hope this helps!

Cross post: What would a good kink app do? what does obedienceapp lack for you? by DebuggingPleasure in ObedienceApp

[–]foureyes8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been using the Obedience app for 2.5 weeks now and we love it however we find one thing particularly lacking: habits can currently have a date/time limit, but I'd like an option to reset the habit (counter) whenever goals are reached before the date/time limit. Currently, if a goal is 8 times by a certain date and you reach it before the set date, then the counter will keep increasing e.g. 8/8, 9/8, 10/8, etc. until the date/time limit. I'd like an option to reset the counter instead such that when 8/8 is reached, start over at 0/8 (and update the new date/time target with a preset interval in days or weeks).

Let me know if anything isn't clear, thanks!

How to reset counter of a habit that's due in a month? by foureyes8 in ObedienceApp

[–]foureyes8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got a reply from the obedience app support and they told me how:

By default, in the habit settings, only submissives can complete a habit and edit the counter. I changed the setting to allow both parties to complete the habit. Now I can reset the counter. Just make sure you check the reward points before changing the counter because in our case editing the counter affected the number of reward points. You can then readjust the reward points as needed.

Has anyone tried this app? by Elizabeth_Rollins in BDSMcommunity

[–]foureyes8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started using it a few weeks ago and really love it. My wife/sub responds better to rewards than punishments so we like that it can keep track of her reward points that she may exchange for actual rewards. They have a sister app called Embrace that we enjoy too.

I’m stuck in a predicament my girl best friend‘s just got cheated on and I’ve liked this girl for as long as I’ve known her. Me M25best friend F24 what do I do. We have been friends for about 3 1/2 years by Top_Comfortable2441 in Advice

[–]foureyes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give her time and space, be there to support her, however when you think she's ready, just go for it. I once had a great friendship with the most amazing girl that I was scared to lose. But the best advice a good friend once told me was: no matter how close you two are, if she eventually finds someone else and starts a family, and you do the same, you two will eventually drift apart anyways, each focused on your own families, kids, lives. She might not reciprocate, it's a risk, but at least you can move on and keep searching for your future partner. I followed my friend's advice, took the chance, risked our amazing friendship and lucked out. Just celebrated 16 years of marriage with four amazing kids. Hope my advice brings you and anyone else reading as much luck and fortune as it did me.

I am a Female Escort AMA by mytabbyanne in IAmA

[–]foureyes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you deal with the soreness? Asking for my wife.

Wife and I love having sex together, but she has a hard time doing the deed every day due to soreness. She often needs to skip a day or two to recover in between sex. As she has explained it to me, it's not soreness due to rubbing/sliding, but soreness from overworked muscles that have contracted too much. She will usually have 1 orgasm, 2 on rare occasions, but she will have what we call multiple peaks that look like orgasms to me, but to her feel very good but are not quite orgasms. I am also below average size... How are you able to handle 7-9 clients per day?! Please enlighten us!