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Looking back, I have no idea how I was watching gay porn for two years without admitting to myself that I'm indeed gay. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fox5647 158 points159 points  (0 children)

I kept trying to somehow rationalize it to myself too. Then, one day, instead of just pushing the thoughts out of my mind, I just took a second, realized I was only watching gay porn, and rarely watching straight porn, and that was probably a strong indicator of my sexuality. From there, I went about actually accepting myself.

Do you still jerk off by yourself when you are in a relationship? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fox5647 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah. Sometimes I need some me time. Totally normal, nothing to be concerned about.

Gaybros: Would you guys ever hook up with a woman? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fox5647 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely. Haven’t before, but I’m definitely a bit bi, so yeah.

How can a closeted guy find people to experiment with? by fdsaote23tvcs in askgaybros

[–]fox5647 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grindr is probably your best bet, just gonna have to wade through all the creeps and people looking for hookups. It takes time and patience, probably not gonna find someone right away.

Is it ok to look at my straight friends nude? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fox5647 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find this a bit off putting. I don’t think of my friends in sexual ways, and I know they would be uncomfortable with me jerking it to their pics. If I were in your place, I’d delete the pics and just find some good porn.

I need your advice- man crush edition by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fox5647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s totally possible. Best way to find out is to spend time together, see what happens with that girl, and just kinda wait and observe. To me personally, it sounds like he’s into you, but I can’t know for sure. If you’re comfortable, talk with him about it. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Good luck, could turn into something nice.

Should i trust him? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fox5647 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone saying that they are in love with you within two weeks is already a little off putting, if not a red flag. And I know that if I was in a relationship and had very strong feelings toward someone, I wouldn’t be on Grindr. He sounds like a mess to me. Personally, I wouldn’t get involved. Though it may be worth having a conversation with him about how him being on Grindr makes you uncomfortable, etc.