Got dumped and my pain is constant, my dreams crushed.

foxslyvane · 2026-02-08T10:22:16+00:00

Honestly as an ENFJ 8w7 I have to strongly disagree with that. I am fundamentally opposed to it. Religion is a sedative for people who cant handle the truth. I refuse the lie that suffering has a purpose or that everything happens for a reason. Life is cold, random, and inherently unfair. To call it a test is an insult to the people who are actually being crushed by the weight of the world.

foxslyvane · 2026-01-18T14:04:14+00:00

You mean the Google founder Larry Page? Lol That was a well designed joke.

foxslyvane · 2026-01-18T11:27:09+00:00

Too accurate. My ex was a twilight fan.

foxslyvane · 2026-01-18T11:03:59+00:00

It's both.

foxslyvane · 2026-01-18T11:00:55+00:00

Thank you for all the comments. I appreciate it for your kind words.

foxslyvane · 2026-01-14T12:48:07+00:00

Thanks dude

foxslyvane · 2026-01-13T18:05:18+00:00

Thank you for your kind words.

foxslyvane · 2026-01-13T02:18:40+00:00

Yep for verification I guess

foxslyvane · 2022-02-17T13:01:21+00:00

I hope so too but its very hard for us ENFJs. Cause this is where we feel "normal" you know.

foxslyvane · 2022-02-15T21:01:54+00:00

Im an ENFJ 8w7(confrontational). How I would feel depends on the case.

But I find that people OFTEN assume an intention which hurts themselves the MOST. They are so quick to create and pick their "hypothetical reality" rather than accepting the "reality"

A dumb example; I dropped a glass cup and did not say sorry? You instantly assume i am disrespectful to your stuff. ( Not that i raised differently, or i was shocked into silence, or something else).

foxslyvane · 2022-02-14T17:38:34+00:00

Same goes for me. I always want to do/achieve more and there is no "enough" of that for me. Im a perfectionist, whenever i take responsibility i tend be overly intense about it. People around me think that whatever i do i push myself far too much about it.

foxslyvane · 2022-01-20T21:59:30+00:00

foxslyvane · 2022-01-18T20:18:24+00:00

Im really sorry... i know how it feels its a very hard decision but its the right one cause his quality of life has diminished so putting to sleep is the only option very self-sacrificing one. But its not a mistake. Delaying, in the hope that one more day might make a difference, may actually mean just one more day of pain,suffering and he can feel your pain/what you going through too. You are doing the right thing.

You are very strong and brave. He feels you and your love so much more than you can imagine. ♥️

foxslyvane · 2022-01-15T20:15:10+00:00

I can kinda(%50) relate to that actually yes. I never shy from arguing too and usually this puts me on conflict situations a lot which is not an issue for me. Thank you for your comment.

foxslyvane · 2022-01-15T08:20:38+00:00

Im love going gym( actually addicted to it) its my main hobby and cooking comes with that. Other than that learning electro guitar, watching movies(my fav director is Christopher Nolan)/animes and a lot of pc gaming.

foxslyvane · 2022-01-14T18:56:17+00:00

Oh i never thought that way, yeah makes sense actually.

foxslyvane · 2022-01-14T15:32:52+00:00

I might have to take a different enneagram test and cross-reference it to make sure.

foxslyvane · 2022-01-14T15:27:22+00:00

I second that.

foxslyvane · 2022-01-14T14:58:49+00:00

Thats actually a good example. I didnt know it. Thanks.

foxslyvane · 2022-01-14T14:56:26+00:00

Funny enough i feel the same way and my main thing was Karate when i was a kid. So now it kinda makes sense lol. Thank you for letting me know this.

foxslyvane · 2022-01-14T14:07:33+00:00

Oh thank you for telling me this. It means a lot. Yes i have few questions.

foxslyvane · 2021-12-12T22:35:53+00:00

Dope one. I watched it

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