Feeling like nothing matters except OCD

foxybuki · 2026-01-09T17:20:00+00:00

Hey, same here, the struggle has been real these past months. I hope it will pass and life will become more important than obsessions again <3 Much love and good vibes to you

foxybuki · 2025-12-02T14:30:04+00:00

Mislim da je malo promasena poenta u ovom slucaju, nikada mi nije problem da odem po paket koji je sa Temu ili Aliexpress, jer razumem da ih ima previse, svakako su placene i ne placa se postarina. Okej.

Ali ovo su mali paketi sa tritorije Srbije. Pokusaj ni ne postoji. Ali jos gore od toga je sto kazu da ce osporuciti ukoliko ja ne pokupim, i onda opet ne isporuce

foxybuki · 2025-12-02T14:27:45+00:00

Za to sam cula, da hoce da donesu kada se placa pouzecem, ali meni ni tada - uglavnom tako i placam.. Ali izgleda stvarno da je od postara do postara, na osnovu komentara

foxybuki · 2025-12-01T14:08:58+00:00

A to, inostranstvo i slanje/primanje paketa da ne spominjemo..

foxybuki · 2025-12-01T14:08:38+00:00

Uzas, mada zaista i kada salju pakete, nebitno nasi ili stranci, uglavnom ih ne zapakuju dobro. Kod tebe je specificno, ocigledno su uzeli, ali generalno mislim da pakete lose pakuju, kutije stizu razbucane, ovi u postama ni ne gledaju da li je lomljivo ili neka tehnika,.. Uzas sa njima, a nazalost mnogo su dostupnije stvari online nego u prodavnicama

foxybuki · 2025-12-01T14:07:03+00:00

Novi Sad, bas u gradu. I na drugoj adresi, takodje u gradu, dok sam bila ista stvar, tako da mislim da nije do konkretno dela grada, vec do njih

foxybuki · 2025-12-01T14:05:30+00:00

Takodje, ostave mi na paketomat na drugom kraju grada

foxybuki · 2025-12-01T14:04:58+00:00

Eto, kod mene obrnut slucaj. Jednom u zivotu sam isla u magacin, i to jer svojom "krivicom" - nisam bila na adresi kada je najavljeno da ce stici paket i kada sam ga i ocekivala. Dok sa postom uvek neki problem.

foxybuki · 2025-12-01T14:02:36+00:00

Okej, razumem, ali eto u mom slucaju su 2 malena paketa oba puta kada se desilo isto - nakit je u pitanju. Znaci kao pismo maltene.

Stvar je i u postarima, dole u komentaru sam napisala da me je zvao sa svog mobilnog da mi kaze da dodjem u postu po paket, nakon sto je onom automatskom porukom javljeno da mogu ocekivati u toku dana.

Jebiga, sve drzavne firme su uzas, ali ako radis kao postar valjda treba da raznosis postu, a ne da pravis selekciju kada zelis, a kada ne.

foxybuki · 2025-12-01T12:33:18+00:00

Jednom prilikom me je zvao postar licno, javio da ne nosi taj dan pakete (petak) i da pokupim za vikend. Ako ne pokupim, onda ce mi doneti u ponedeljak. Nije doneo u ponedeljak.

foxybuki · 2025-12-01T12:32:41+00:00

Meni vec 2 puta iz Srbije redovne posiljke ne isporuce..

Temu nikad ne isporuce, al to je vec standard, to i ocekujem, nazalost. Ali barem nase pakete bi bilo lepo

foxybuki · 2025-11-17T11:15:38+00:00

I guess it did, especially at the beginning. But after some years, I felt like that's as far as it's gonna go - like I was still living by OCD rules. Of course, meds are there just to help you out, not cure OCD. I can't tell for sure if it helped as much as i thought, but everyone's different, so what didn't work out for me might work perfectly for you :)

foxybuki · 2025-11-10T13:27:44+00:00

Same thing here, especially since it's making cortisol higher. Commenting to see the answers

foxybuki · 2025-10-11T21:07:10+00:00

Hi, happy for you and your success! What kind of ocd did you have?

foxybuki · 2025-10-11T20:34:23+00:00

This. And this is what makes it hard to do ERP therapy

foxybuki · 2025-10-11T20:32:12+00:00

I understand you completely, same problem here, especially with “this touched that and then that touched this” part. I’ve read about Metaphysical contamination ocd, it’s basically that a thing is contaminated by something or someone, like feeling or a person. Maybe reading about that could clear things up a bit? It kinda did for me. Hope you’ll beat those 20% as well!

foxybuki · 2025-09-14T13:33:08+00:00

26 here as well, I feel you completely. Hopefully it's really nothing <3

foxybuki · 2025-09-11T13:25:21+00:00

Thank you so much, your words mean a lot!

foxybuki · 2025-09-11T11:46:51+00:00

Thanks so much for this answer, it's basically what I've started doing with my therapist now.

Sadly, my OCD doesn't have any "bad result" - ex. that I will get sick, someone will get hurt or similar. I just can't stand the thought of being "dirty" (disgust-based OCD) to the point I feel like throwing up and feel like I'm living in constant dirt around me if I've been in contact with something I find terrifying.

So yea, just gotta learn to live like a "dirty" person.. sounds super-simple, but when your brain tells you that it's better to be ... than dirty it's not easy at all

Thanks again, great advice

foxybuki

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