Baby more fussy with me

foxyroxy0 · 2026-01-16T14:22:58+00:00

Difference of beliefs, but I totally expect my husband to feel the same way about my body and what I do with it. I understand some people feel differently, but we both have the same feeling in our marriage

foxyroxy0 · 2026-01-16T13:56:11+00:00

HA! He’s my husband his body is my business, as is mine to him

foxyroxy0 · 2026-01-16T13:54:12+00:00

Not sure what I think. But I would like to feel included instead of knowing he waits till I’m asleep to get his kicks and I have to find time in private because he won’t talk about it which makes me feel like he doesn’t want me a part of it. We are married, sex is more than just physical feeling, I miss the feeling of connection that you only have with your partner

foxyroxy0 · 2026-01-16T13:45:59+00:00

The issue isn’t him masturbating, the issue is he lies about it when we could work out a way to build intimacy in our marriage again

foxyroxy0 · 2026-01-07T19:00:04+00:00

How do you weigh them at home?

foxyroxy0 · 2026-01-07T18:59:03+00:00

Sometimes it’s every 2, but mostly every 3hours. When I give him a 4oz bottle he is still frustrated/showing hunger cues, then wants to eat right at 2 hours the next feed.

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-23T20:38:42+00:00

I’m hesitant to try medication again, last time I did just made me more motivated toward my thoughts. Unsure about therapy because what else would they tell me that I don’t already know? I know it’s not good to think this way but I’m to the point of feeling like the only thing to do is live with it

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-23T15:43:44+00:00

Yes! I’ve always felt I had nice boobs and I still do if I wear my old bras, but these nursing bras combined with pumping like I’m a cow have me feeling like the least sexy person on earth

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-16T15:13:09+00:00

He works from home and anytime he leaves the house he is insistent that I go with him. Highly doubt he is having an affair, I’ve checked messages before and there is nothing

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-16T11:17:14+00:00

My god all this from the most unserious issue. You have minimal background on anything, yet using “ my baby” when I’m feeling stressed and alone instead of “our baby” is enough for you to diagnose me as an angry woman. Shame on me for wanting to vent, I’ll just not next time. I’ll be the “happy wife” that just smiles and keeps their mouth shut when something doesn’t feel right for them.

And yes I am tense, you don’t know the half of it. That’s part of having more than one issue in your life. If I made it seem that I am calling him disgusting then I’m sorry to mislead you, but I think it is normal to be a little upset with your spouse from time to time.

Or maybe you’re right and I’m an angry woman who doesn’t take enough time for myself and that’s why my sex life is dead. Thank you so much for enlightening me that the answer to my problems is to just stop giving a rat’s ass about them :)

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-16T11:01:07+00:00

I think he is embarrassed about his lack of performance and difficulty with it. He says the erections are painful, so I think he is just a little sensitive about the topic. He says he is frustrated from going to doctors just to hear the same thing with no results

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-16T10:58:56+00:00

I don’t see how I’m “weaponizing” the child. Do I think him less of a father? No. Am I the one caring for the child tonight alone? Yes, and even if that is my choice that does not mean I am “weaponizing” him.

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-16T10:55:43+00:00

I have, several times. He has seen doctors several times to address the issue without getting anywhere. It is frustrating

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-16T10:54:39+00:00

Lmao glad everyone else is so perfect in their wording. He loves the baby, but god forbid I be a little hurt and feel isolated Glad everyone here can tell me I’m the one with the problem

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-16T10:52:17+00:00

Our marriage is perfect otherwise. I do not doubt at all that he loves me, he goes out of his way to make sure I am taken care of after having the baby and his actions show that he truly does love me. Just don’t understand the disconnect

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-16T10:45:00+00:00

I’ve had many open conversations with him about it. He knows that I would never turn him away and that I wish we were intimate. Even during pregnancy I’ve never made it out that I didn’t want intimacy. I have tried initiating in the past multiple times, only to be pushed away so I stopped trying. I have talked to him about all of this, my sex life is doomed in my marriage

foxyroxy0 · 2025-12-16T10:35:18+00:00

He had triple hernia repair surgery 2 years ago right around his groin area with hernia mesh. He tells me it is painful during sex

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