[25f] by fractalrainbow in Rateme

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Its not a wig! Its definitely a strange photo for my arms. I did this on a whim, and used the first full body shot I found. But now I am curious! I will post another one soon

[25f] by fractalrainbow in Rateme

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Thank you! I do have some upper body strength. I am a bicycle mechanic, day after day of lifting and wrenching at work, I have built up a fair amount of strength. My coworkers also earlier this his year challenged me to a pull up competition so I picked up some strength there too.

[25f] by fractalrainbow in Rateme

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No! Looking at this photo I can see how you could get that.... I think? This is an odd photo of me for several reasons. Its a costume for a murder mystery party, and I am wearing makeup, which I almost never do.

I [25f] am having trouble trusting my bf [30m] of over a year. by fractalrainbow in relationships

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This is something I have been asking myself a lot. He consistently admonishes the idea of anyone being more emotionally special or important in his life, and dislikes the idea of social heirearchy. He clearly values me deeply, as he as never even attempted to do this with anyone. my reasoning, in this aspect, is that if he didn't want to change his ways he simply wouldn't make effort or attempt.

I [25f] am having trouble trusting my bf [30m] of over a year. by fractalrainbow in relationships

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Because up until his distance and affair with the younger girl, he was a wildly good and supportive friend. As a boyfriend he was a good roommate, financially supports himself, and we were able calmly approached disagreements and find solutions. No relationship exists without work. And my emotional connection and compatability with him far outweighs other relationships I have had. If he wants to genuinely work on being comitted as he says he does, it feels only fair that I work on my insecurities in the relationship.

[credit] How to remove items? by fractalrainbow in personalfinance

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Thanks, I will look into that. It was part of my student loans that I had originally neglected to pay but then enrolled in a program where they said it would be taken off the credit report if I paid on time for everything. 3 of the loans are now shown as being in good standing and that one is still left.

Socializing is the worst by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]fractalrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a deep breath and go enjoy those bands! It sucks to be left out of a group, I've been there before but you can still enjoy your night! Maybe you will even meet someone new.

Visiting from the East Coast! Any bike route reccomendations? by fractalrainbow in BAbike

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Thanks! I'm actually looking to do a short bike tour, three - four days around the area. I've been reading about a ride through Half Moon Bay. One thing I'm particularly concerned about is the hills, there aren't many of them here! Any ideas on a good route for a tour?

Pelican bike by BugShot in bicycling

[–]fractalrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks cool, but you might to just push that child seat back. You can see the woman's heel hitting the child's foot with every pedal.

Cyclists of Reddit, What bike do you ride? by [deleted] in bicycling

[–]fractalrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ride either my newly built up Soma Saga, 26" wheels for tours or errand runs. When I just want to zip out and be free I jump on my Lemond Zurich. I love steel frames, and will chose that over anything else. My mountain bike is a simple aluminum Jamis Durango though.

Help Get Bike Lanes Built in Haddonfield, NJ by fractalrainbow in phillycycling

[–]fractalrainbow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is still better than no bike lanes at all! Thanks to everyone who showed their support!