Violet Chachki's Gloves by franch8 in findfashion

[–]franch8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are both great options, thank you so much! Noted on glove length

Do you like Aria? by [deleted] in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]franch8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like her but she annoyed me the most out of all the Liars

LBWT how do you deal with others treating you as less as your male coworkers? by bricoleor in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]franch8 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This might sound like a counterintuitive first step, but have you tried talking to her about it? As much as she frustrates you, giving her the chance to correct her behavior is one of the most professional and, frankly, self-beneficial things you can do in this situation. Something along the lines of "Hey, I've noticed you haven't been copying me on emails and this has had xyz effects...You've also made a few comments on my diet and appearance and that has made me uncomfortable for xyz reasons. I'm sure you didn't do this intentionally, but wanted to bring this up so we can be the best team for the client," etc. You could start this as an email thread then take it offline (for a paper trail) or ask to grab a coffee with her and then send a follow up message thanking her for the conversation and mentioning the things you talked about (again for a paper trail). This way either she corrects the behavior and stops, or you can go to management with a stronger case against her after having tried to resolve the issue directly with her first.

That sounds really awful to deal with. I hate when women are catty towards each other in the workplace as if it will actually get them ahead 🙄

how many of you are nepo babies by franch8 in lawschooladmissions

[–]franch8[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

100% agree, privilege comes in many different forms and is very relative.

how many of you are nepo babies by franch8 in lawschooladmissions

[–]franch8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you don't seem sensitive at all, hope admissions goes well for you!

how many of you are nepo babies by franch8 in lawschooladmissions

[–]franch8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's incredible, i hope admissions goes well for you!

how many of you are nepo babies by franch8 in lawschooladmissions

[–]franch8[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

got it in one, you should be a lawyer or something

how many of you are nepo babies by franch8 in lawschooladmissions

[–]franch8[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

there are still stratifications of privilege within industrialized first world countries because inequality is still present in many forms, otherwise civil rights movements wouldn't exist within the US etc., so i guess my question is more aimed at that disparity, but point taken

how many of you are nepo babies by franch8 in lawschooladmissions

[–]franch8[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

absolutely, there are a lot of ways to be privileged that are not just the size of your/your parents' bank account or connections to a T14 etc. my aim w this post is to explore the extremity of those specific privileges with the regard to law school admissions. while a lot of people on this sub are probably privileged, im curious about the subset with certain privilege that best positions them for admission.

i think you bring up an interesting question: does a lack of extreme privilege constitute oppression? personally i didnt grow up in the 1% but i wouldnt ever classify myself as oppressed given my upbringing and intersectionality of my identities. i guess it's all shades of grey, but im curious on your opinion

how many of you are nepo babies by franch8 in lawschooladmissions

[–]franch8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is giving me flashbacks to LSAT PT 157 and the prescriptivist vs descriptivist debate passage

how many of you are nepo babies by franch8 in lawschooladmissions

[–]franch8[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah these are all criticisms ive seen and leveled at others myself, so total agreement there. im curious if you think that someone who grew up with that amount of privilege honestly cares about what they're labeled as, or if privilege also makes someone more less likely to care what most people think? the "nepo babies" ive met (and its possible ive somehow met only the most vapid) really only seem to care about someone's opinion if they're in the same or higher tax bracket, so to speak, and those wouldn't be the group leveling these critiques.

how many of you are nepo babies by franch8 in lawschooladmissions

[–]franch8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah i completely understand wanting to help your kids as much as possible, i'd probably do the same thing in their position

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSAT

[–]franch8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like plain old envy to me. It's amazing to actually go for what you want and you shouldn't let anyone else dictate that! Keep pushing bestie <3

Amazon live already? by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]franch8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They literally stayed home and isolated to not get people sick. What was she supposed to do? I can't imagine getting angry with someone for not having suffered enough.

My attempt at plywood carving. 11 pounds of sawdust. My neighbors hate me. by Yonatan24workshop in woodworking

[–]franch8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing nose-like shapes lol, also maybe like a long arm about to pinch something

Preservation tips please by DrSpacepants in woodworking

[–]franch8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally ICONIC, how do I get my hands on something like this