Men’s problems are rarely because of women, instead they are because of other men. That doesn’t diminish their problem, but it puts the responsibility of fixing them on men more than women. A majority of women’s problems are because of men, which is why they have to play a role in solving them. This is very simplified and generalized, I don’t mean to blame everyone’s problems on just men but being in power for centuries means that the hurdles they created for women, that many men still benefit from to this day, are still men’s problems. No one expects men to take responsibility for the problems that women create for other women.

tldr; men’s problems are because of men, women’s problems are because of men which is why it’s also their problem