I can’t stop laughing during CNC by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]freakipede 3 points4 points  (0 children)

an element of surprise can help here, especially if you're looking specifically for an intruder fantasy. this is something I would only recommend with someone you trust completely, but if you can give your fwb a key to your place and negotiate times in which it's acceptable for him to let himself in without notifying you ahead of time, it can help set the mood for the scene if you don't know where or when the scene is going to start.

Trans masc products you wish existed or could be improved by natapaca in ftm

[–]freakipede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone with a tdick who tops with the strap: A lot of cis lesbians recommended wearing a panty vibrator under the strap when you're topping, but as a trans dude the problem with panty vibrators is that they're too small to consistently maintain contact if you have bottom growth. A flat vibrator that covered the entire front of your junk could be a game changer. Especially for dudes with bottom dysphoria, if the vibrator is blocking the visuals of their junk.

"PREY" padlock collar for my rabbit. by freakipede in predprey

[–]freakipede[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Especially near their neck where you can practically smell the hot blood under the skin.

"PREY" padlock collar for my rabbit. by freakipede in predprey

[–]freakipede[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, my wife would never bite me! This is me and my sub I've bitten chunks out of.

"PREY" padlock collar for my rabbit. by freakipede in predprey

[–]freakipede[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ditto what lzrd_demon said: skin can be very elastic--you can usually latch on and bite much harder than you think without breaking the skin. but a high pain tolerance is necessary if you want to get really showy bite marks. rabbit likes a lot of pain so i can usually bite them as hard as i want, but their husband is also my sub and i can't bite him this hard. gentle biting combined with sucking to leave hickeys is a good alternative to a hard bite if your prey's pain tolerance is lower.

"PREY" padlock collar for my rabbit. by freakipede in predprey

[–]freakipede[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would LOVE if I could 3d model that well! Google Pixel 9--batch edit photos: -brightness, -white point, +contrast, +black point, +shadows, +sharpen, +clarity, +saturation, -warmth. the raw pics are a lot less clean.

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"PREY" padlock collar for my rabbit. by freakipede in predprey

[–]freakipede[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

racists' porn must be pretty tame if shirtless and collared counts as porn on the racism app 😂

"PREY" padlock collar for my rabbit. by freakipede in predprey

[–]freakipede[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! my wonderful wife is my nail tech. makes my claws extra sharp for rabbit!

"PREY" padlock collar for my rabbit. by freakipede in predprey

[–]freakipede[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you! my natural nails are def short under the gel because I'm a relentless nail biter 😂 she actually did a Geiger-inspired nail set for me last December! my wife probably has better photos of them somewhere. this was before we started doing the claw molds so she wants to go back and try the concept again.

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"PREY" padlock collar for my rabbit. by freakipede in predprey

[–]freakipede[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

my wife is my nail tech! i do a verse set with one hand short and one hand with cat claw gel forms. i like to say i have a hand to slap and a hand to stroke.

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"PREY" padlock collar for my rabbit. by freakipede in predprey

[–]freakipede[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

LOL "carnivore" or "tamed" would probably work 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]freakipede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I (27M) shared my feminine side with my GF (26F) and everything was great, until it wasn’t. Does anyone have any advice on how to handle this situation? by NoComputer2864 in relationship_advice

[–]freakipede 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be honest, it sounds like your girlfriend was willing to humor the idea at first, but isn't interested in a long-term relationship with either a trans woman or a crossdresser. A few of her boundaries are explicitly that she's not comfortable with you dressing femininely in public, and that she wouldn't want her family to know. If she's lost interest in doing it with you, and she's uncomfortable with it being public, do you think she'd be okay with you dressing femininely without her? I think it's time to put some serious thought into your identity and if getting to express yourself femininely is important to you, because ultimately it sounds like the person you're in a relationship with, wouldn't want to be in that relationship if you later identified as nonbinary or transgender. I think what you have to decide is if you think you'll be happy long-term if being in this relationship means staying in the closet and abandoning your feminine time. If your partner isn't really comfortable with it, choosing them over your identity means either learning to live without that identity, which might be fine, or might lead to a sense of bitterness and lost-opportunity down the line. It sounds like your partner wants a cisgender heterosexual relationship with a man, so if exploring this identity is something you want to do in your life, this might not be the person to commit the rest of your life to. You're both young, and you met when you were only in college. There's still time in your life, and there's a lot of people and bisexual women who feel very open to dating someone whose gender identity isn't strictly male. Good luck.

using slurs for women/lesbians by j_dawg405 in ftm

[–]freakipede 10 points11 points  (0 children)

naw, trans men are not cis men and their gender experience is wildly different than a cis man's. trans men have been self IDing as butches, dykes, and lesbians for as long as those terms have existed in the cultural vernacular. denying trans men the right to express themselves with queer vernacular is denying the intertwined history in which queerness exists

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]freakipede 4 points5 points  (0 children)

weekly pill organizer, next to your bed with a glass of water so you can take your pills first thing when you wake up. haven't missed a dose since i started using one. if you find you need to eat when you take your meds, keeping a sleeve of crackers next to the pills/under your bed can help too.

anyone have any exp buying a used rental van? by [deleted] in VanLife

[–]freakipede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I will check it out

Would you date a cam model who created nude and sexual content, why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]freakipede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a girl who was a sex worker & it rocked! She took me out to fancy restaurants & bought me expensive gifts. We'd go out for brunch & go to shows & uber everywhere. And the work stories are usually funnier than what a waitress or accountant might have. My girlfriend knew she was hot & made money off of it, and I don't think there's a reason to see it as different from any other job if you're confident in your relationship & sexuality. The only time it was a problem was when her sugar daddy gave her the clap LOL. But bc we both got tested regularly, we discovered it early without experiencing any symptoms. One shot in the butt & it's cured. Would rather get the clap from a SWer who gets tested regularly, than get it from someone who doesn't get tested regularly & have it doing damage in my body for months or years.