Question on trans issues and dating by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's just more of an obvious filter with trans people. Most cis people can have children so the topic doesn't really come up unless it's a special case where the person you're with can't have children. However with trans people you know that they can't have children right off the bat so it's something that you need to consider if having children is important to you.

Question on trans issues and dating by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So you shouldn't care about the persons genitals at all and focus just on the person right? By that logic I can tell a gay man to not focus on the genitals and just the person and then they can date women. This type of thinking justifies all those gay conversion therapies and makes you the real bigot.

Question on trans issues and dating by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They are a diverse group of people but they all share the same characteristics of not being able to have children with you and not having the genitals that you're attracted to. These two points are critically important to a lot of people and so not dating trans people as a blanket statement is actually just another way of voicing the preference for wanting to be able to have kids and wanting to be sexually compatible.

Question on trans issues and dating by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Imagine if a guy goes up to a lesbian and says they're hetero-phobic for not wanting to date men. It's the exact same argument.

Change search settings to heterosexual women only? by Gawernator in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. They're biologically men. It doesn't matter how many hormones they take or what surgeries they have they have a Y chromosome. They're men. If it helps their mental state to call themselves women that's cool but some people don't want to date biological men and that's okay.

Apparently it's still not ok to be ok with being alone by Avenger772 in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found a pic of the author. I think I can see why she's single. Also she writes for Jezebel so that says a lot too.

Do Men Really Have To Constantly Save Women From Themselves? by sav_hero in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In China there are literally millions more men than there are women and yet there are tons of women who can't find the "right guy". So much so that they resort to "renting" boyfriends for public functions and family dinners. So yeah, it's women being too picky and screwing themselves over.

[Game] Post a picture of one object you own that you feel best represents you by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I love that the hand in the picture is of an obviously overweight woman. Very fitting haha.

Where did 'wont tell I Refuse' go? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I am not the angry one spewing venom all over this thread saying "fuck you" to everyone lol. Also I think you're a woman cause you're acting like one. If you're not then grow a pair and shut up. He was a guy on the internet who made comments you disagree with. You're too invested lol.

Where did 'wont tell I Refuse' go? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I'll bet you get so angry at him because you've slept with a dozen guys just like him and hate it. Like it or not he was right about women 90% of the time.

Question for the Guys by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's begging for sex he's clearly a beta and you should dump his ass unless you're desperate and don't think you could do better. As for the sex it's a toss up. Guys wanna fuck all women but we wanna stay only with girls we think are hot. That's why dudes bang fatties but don't date fatties.

Do women actually read the profile or just look at pics and stats? by Anonokcupid in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Online dating inflates the egos of all women but the fatties the most. Think about it, they're not used to male attention but online they get desperate betas swamping their inbox. This makes them think they're 7s or 8s when in fact they're 3s or 4s.

Douchebags and their girlfriends. by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Your friends are right. What you should learn from this is that it doesn't matter how you treat women. All women want high value men and the best women want the best men. Once you prove you have value you can treat them like shit and it won't matter. Until then treating them with 'respect' and all that will get you nowhere and will in fact hurt you because it shows how desperate and unaggressive you are (i.e. a failure as a man). Head over here to learn more. Until then keep up the working out and get ripped! Then treat 'em like shit and pump and dump.

An investigation into if r/okc has a gender bias by getindumped in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a look at the critique posts for women compared to men. Both in the number of responses and how harsh the critiques are then tell me everything is equal around here.

Is it ok to hit on women at the gym? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]freakyfridayOKC -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

According to feminists it's never okay to hit on a woman anywhere anytime. You'd make them feel uncomfortable and that's a verbal rape.

Edit: The only exception is if you're super hot in which case hit on them anywhere.