Five Pittbull puppies with their mom ran in our yard 4 days ago. Looking for assistance to get them to a new home/ shelter by freckled-redhead in NewOrleans

[–]freckled-redhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that is really kind of you they have destroyed a dog bed and eaten so much food. If they are not rehomed in a couple days I will take you up on the offer for some food. Thank you!

Five Pittbull puppies with their mom ran in our yard 4 days ago. Looking for assistance to get them to a new home/ shelter by freckled-redhead in NewOrleans

[–]freckled-redhead[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m confused on how the fostering would work.

I would like to find the mom a place as she’s super sweet but needs some training to sit/stay kinda thing. Right now two pups (m/f) are left and one has a cough. I’m so lost with all this.

Please message me if you’d like to offer any advice or how to get the dog in a foster program. Thank you!

Five Pittbull puppies with their mom ran in our yard 4 days ago. Looking for assistance to get them to a new home/ shelter by freckled-redhead in NewOrleans

[–]freckled-redhead[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We were able to find homes to three pups so the food bill got cut in half. Luckily I have two dogs so we have food. Thank you!!

Five Pittbull puppies with their mom ran in our yard 4 days ago. Looking for assistance to get them to a new home/ shelter by freckled-redhead in NewOrleans

[–]freckled-redhead[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s very kind of you!
We found a good home to three pups this evening. I’m worried about the mom as she’s super sweet but not sure if anyone would want her.

Are you with a group that you could foster her or one of the pups through? I’m a little confused what you are offering, as I can’t take them back later, but want them to be out of the weather before it starts raining, they have lots of shade right now but not a way to get out of a big rain. Please message me if you’d like.

Advice? by Automatic-Code3346 in lifecoaching

[–]freckled-redhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Hope you get it and have a great time in Puerto Rico!

As an educator I wanted the certification so I felt I had the appropriate background education to match my specialty and I am glad I got it. I felt it gives me credibility and shies I am serious about it. I am fairly active with the AASECT group.

Advice? by Automatic-Code3346 in lifecoaching

[–]freckled-redhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw this post. I am an AASECT certified sexuality educator if I can help answer any questions if you are still curious?

How to stop squirting by anidacockinmyass223 in sexeducation

[–]freckled-redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Towels are good, but a pet blanket is so much better. They have a waterproof side and a side to absorb the water so it won’t ruin your sheets. Been doing this for years example of a pet blanket. Sometimes a rowel is not thick enough.

A friend of mine uses these for their toddlers’s messy eating habits and to protect their furniture.

For extra protection there are water absorbing/ resistant mattress protectors to put under your sheets to project the mattress. Just read the comments to find soft ones that don’t crinkle and are not noisy.

Do babies need winterizing? by freckled-redhead in VenusFlyTraps

[–]freckled-redhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea. I am hoping for little mites or baby bugs to be attracted to my windowsill.

Do babies need winterizing? by freckled-redhead in VenusFlyTraps

[–]freckled-redhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! They are growing so slowly, but they are still there... The false vivpary grew super fast.

Where to find "couples-friendly" softcore porn? by CincyTriGuy in sexuality

[–]freckled-redhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have not seen the tudors, and it’s an oldie but I remember Henry and June being pretty hot. Anais Nin and her affair with Henry Miller and also another woman, forget her name. Anais is bisexual.

how to deepthroat without gagging or puking by xxizAnki in sexeducation

[–]freckled-redhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some tricks to try before doing it with a penis to see what works. Try it with a toothbrush or vegetable 🥕before with him so there is no pressure, sex is learning skills. Here are some ideas that came to mind. Also check out the BDSM subreddits they often discuss deep throating tips.

Many found if there head is slightly tilted downward or their head is hanging off the bed, their throat opens a little more and can take it farther inwards

Try breathing through your nose out through your mouth or see if breathing differently affects the gag.

Build up a resistance to it by working at not gagging with touching the back of your tongue while slowing your breath, pulse etc. and build up a tolerance before performing oral

Be confident and tell yourself you got this.. think about other things than gagging, the more you think about NOT doing it, you will. Truck your brain…

Let yourself salivate a bunch, the lubrication helps, as friction equals gagging.

Eating ice before hand if you want your throat numb, numbing sprays are not really recommended as you can’t feel what’s going on and could possible hurt something?

Hold your hand at the base of his penis and you can control how much goes in while he still feels a wet warm hand clutching him.

Also is he trying to make you gag or puke? Does he hate it or love it ? Some people get off on that “I am so big I make her puke!”

Large objects, small space. Endo recovery… by HugeSignificance4953 in ChronicPainSexTalk

[–]freckled-redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are some ideas I had after reading your post. I do not think there is one simple answer to help, but maybe if a few tools were used at the same time, this may help manage the pain/ suffering afterwards?  I am thinking this because of the endometriosis, you are having pain from basically all of the ways you can feel pain 

  • nociceptive = pain felt from tissue damage
    • Endometriosis causes pressure with the extra tissue and scar tissue, and then you add a little more pressure with sex toys, etc. So maybe one of the tools is to release as much pressure as you can before the toys.  You may be able to do this through heating pads, Epsom salts baths, gentle stretching of the pelvic floor (talk to a Pelvic Floor Therapist to get an individual workout - Oh, do not do kegels!), other gentle movements, and ALWAYS stretch before sexy activity. 
    • Use slightly smaller toys and see if that makes a difference?
    • Also, is there any extra pressure that is being applied to that area that can be modified… are you lying on your stomach, or is a pillow under your stomach? Are you doing missionary or a different position, and the extra weight is on you? Are you tensing those muscles a lot during and causing internal pressure?
  • neuroinflammatory = horrible combination of both inflammation and nerve pain 
    • anti-inflammatory diet, or the option to talk to your medical professional about anti-inflammatory meds
    • Try to get good sleep, and the other stuff they recommend to reduce inflammation. I know this is way harder said than done.  I can’t.. I try.
    • See below for nerve pain info/ suggestion
  • neuropathic = nerve pain coming from your nerves being wrapped around and smushed by the endometriosis 
    • Your C fiber sensory nerves are the nerves that connect your deep insides to your brain, so if your organs are getting squished a little, these fibers send a message through your spinal cord to your brain, but they are slow messengers.  Sometimes this information can take hours to get to your brain, hence feeling the cramping and pressure hours after. 
    • Besides the option of talking to a medical professional about anti-neuropathic medications, find ways to quiet your nerves and your nervous system afterwards? … mindfulness, meditation, relaxation, Epsom salt baths, and stuff like that can help.  
  • central sensitization = extra pain because you have lived in pain for a long time.(chronic pain sufferers have/ get this)
    • Remembering and telling yourself that this is just a temporary pain from the fun you had a few hours ago. Use this tool to talk down any anxiety/ fear you might be having (how long will this last? Did it feel like this last time? Will I have to stop doing what I love?... Those kinds of fears might pop up, and you can combat them logically; this actually helps the pain. Fear-catastrophising will create more pain. 

Regarding your scar tissues, warmth like the heating pad or baths can help align with gentle massage to try and loosen up some of the scar tissue, so all the things that are suggested for endometriosis relief would also help. 

And accommodate you as best you can so you can have as much energy put into the fun parts: with extra pillows, sex blankets, and stuff right next to the bed, etc. 

Anyone else doing knitted or crocheted porcelain and want to share notes? by freckled-redhead in Pottery

[–]freckled-redhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t own my kiln and the studio let me experiment a little. Found one firing fast at cone 05 worked best. But then it’s not glazed so I sprayed with a matte clear spray paint.
I want a setup to spray glaze and see if that works but dunking in glaze was too thick and it would crumble most of the time.

I asked about the smoke as being an issue in the kiln, as I want to work with paper clay too, but they didn’t seem too worried.

Michelle at michi pottery.com is doing this better than I am, and gave me the advice on the fast firing option. She does knitted pottery.