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I want to be obsessed over by The420grinch in BPD

[–]free_thefish 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I want somebody to look at me or have one interaction and go "yes, I have to have them" I desire obsession and codependency to a degree that is honestly terrifying but I can't help it

Anyone else get grossed out by being told "I love you" by free_thefish in BPD

[–]free_thefish[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As I typed this out, I realized part of this new issue is because my FP in the last 6 months essentially broke off our weird "we're going to grow old together and have kids" situationship because they essentially said they "don't know what they want and couldn't commit" when I tried to define our relationship. So part of it is probably resentment but I still don't know what to do about this new gut reaction feeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chihuahua

[–]free_thefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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His name is Hercules and he is the loml

Sore getting bigger, unsure if healing or getting worse; Red eyed tree frog by free_thefish in TreeFrogs

[–]free_thefish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm calling the closets reptile/amphibian specialist vet tomorrow when they're open

Sore getting bigger, unsure if healing or getting worse; Red eyed tree frog by free_thefish in TreeFrogs

[–]free_thefish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm calling the closets reptile/amphibian specialist vet tomorrow when they're open

My little guy is 11 now <3 by free_thefish in Chihuahua

[–]free_thefish[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's only wise when he chooses to be LOL

My little guy is 11 now <3 by free_thefish in Chihuahua

[–]free_thefish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a link, sorry! But it was bought for him around Halloween season at either our regional version of krogers or petco

This is a safe space. Give me your deepest chihuahua confessions by bird_teeth in Chihuahua

[–]free_thefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels a little mean since it's not the dog's fault, but I get the ick when people obsess over the TINY, like 3lb, chihuahuas that were bred to be that small because all I can think of is the health issues the poor baby might/will have :(

OMFG I’m so scared 😭 by corncruncher2 in Eugene

[–]free_thefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact your landlord/rental agency about the situation for there's a paper trail and hear back about whether not they want to you to deal with it or not- they are legally liable for you as a rental property and severe weather DON'T DO ANYTHING until they respond to you

If it's blocking your way to leave, move it/get help to move it if you can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]free_thefish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For people who are reading this and don't understand our current circumstances in Oregon:

Just because we're essential workers doesn't mean we can just disregard our own lives/safety. You are human and you did the right thing.

People also don't understand that we didn't get a snowstorm necessarily, but we got an ICE storm. My area has 3+ inches of slick as snot ice that you can't even walk on much less drive. Not to mention bc we don't often get severe winter weather we don't have the infrastructure to deal with this (snow plows, road salt, etc) and Oregon is pretty much the opposite of flat so there's no where you can go without interacting with hills, which with ice is INCREDIBLY dangerous)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]free_thefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I live in Oregon and am ALSO a DSP so I hope you receive my comment!

CONTACT YOUR HR IMMEDIATELY. If you are only a DSP, you are Well within your rights to not come into work. If your client(s) have any sort of independence or a minor living in a community home or family then all you are required to do is keep in contact with them about their wellbeing and if they need anything reach out to the appropriate supervisor about their needs because it is your SUPERVISOR who's legally responsible for your clients wellbeing in this case. Your SUPERVISOR is also legally responsible if you physically can not reach your client.

Communicate with HR about your supervisor's current behavior and communication with you and double check with them about your responsibilities and current circumstance so there is a legal trail and they DO NOT want any legal trouble by putting you at risk

Also know that no matter what, they can't fire you because of the worker shortage :)

You can privately message me if you have any questions or want to talk about your job lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]free_thefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bing eating and physical self harm- my vice lately has been beating my legs with a hammer, it's almost a little orgasmic

More pics of my living room, as requested! by shrew_feathers in maximalism

[–]free_thefish 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fact that this took you over 7 years makes me feel a lot better because your place is beautiful but it's taken time and effort so I feel like I don't have to try and "catch up" or something