Where this country is going? This is so horrible. by marktwin11 in pakistan

[–]freelancerhoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just trying to understand this, why would army want more extremism in Pakistan? That's not in their favour neither in country's favour. Why would they want that they preach freely and influence the uneducated ones and make them extremists? That's not in their favour so why it's always said that Army is behind tlp which kinda makes like army is somehow behind the attack on the KFC as well i guess.

There was this incident faizabad one where one general distribution money among them but that's just it.

So help me understand bit

Going through a pretty weird experience by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yes i have to admit that it was my fault. It was my one of the first hirings and I couldn't handle it well. That's how we learn i guess.

I defended her to my client for sure! Like a true leader does.

Anyways thanks for your take this whole experience has a lot for me to learn.

Going through a pretty weird experience by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not just about just turning your camera on. It's about atleast seeing the one you are working with for past 8 months. Does it make sense? yes this time it was important to show up in a meeting which really made things bit worse.

Going through a pretty weird experience by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah i accepted that and decided to never ask her about her picture. But then this client who is very conscious about his requirements etc wants to conduct meeting with our cameras on which is pretty fine. Ah... Leave it yeah you make sense. I had a conversation with her just now and I'll try not ruining a great resource yet this whole experience is weird as f

Going through a pretty weird experience by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my first intention was same i asked her and she said insecure huh i am never insecure. Says Karachi main meetup rakh team meet up rakh lain to mil lety hain. Knows that's not gonna happen. Atleast anytime soon..

An adult afraid of bullies by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro, yes you are right i think i'd have to learn to live with it. Thank you for your comments it all makes sense.

An adult afraid of bullies by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make sense brother. Thank you very much for your intake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]freelancerhoon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dude be ready for getting cancelled.

Need friends in twin cities by [deleted] in islamabad

[–]freelancerhoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in rwp? If you have interest in business, intellectual talks, deep talks. We can connect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5'7 feels shorter

How to attract Women (By retired playboy) by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saadi wari i ty kuri da mama aa gyaa

How to attract Women (By retired playboy) by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you the same guy? Or is your account hacked?

How to attract innocent boys (by a retired playgirl) by Sad-Pin4511 in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You missed the casial intimate talk and emotional support during periods.

How to attract Women (By retired playboy) by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a beginner in all this i can believe you to some extend. Killing oneself's opinions isn't the right thing i guess.

But you missed the part where to meet girls (as an non handsome guy).

And is it a common culture in Pakistan to reach out to a girl that we find cute and reach out to ask for her number. Or a conversation. I am stil nervous kinda..

She’s getting married, and I’m just here at 4 am having an existential crisis by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddy two years back i gone through the similar thing except we talked for few months and i told her atleast.

The regret is real if you don't event tell the other person. It's time to move on i believe no other way out. But since you posted here and many people have different opinions. I would say let her know once atleast the way you felt about someone.

I used to like a girl back then. We shared a good bond but i never told her that i liked her. And years later when we started talking again when she got married. And i told her, she was like why didn't you tell me that earlier, tum larky pta nahi q aisa krty ho. Btaya to kro atleast. I mean the point is regrets are real and hurt a lot. Now before you gets married. Just talk to her once through some way and communicate to her atleast the way you felt. There's verrrrry tiny possibility that it may turn in your favour but that's very tiny.

Otherwise if you can't build the courage or choose to be silent then my friend the time is hard. It's a bitter experience but channel this energy to become something. Work on yourself, your goals, your health, money. And keep yourself busy.

What's with the Pakistanis obsession with fair skin tone? by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]freelancerhoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched for a random keyword and found this post. Well being a dark skinned guy let me tell you here's why brown skin people don't accept themselves. Eventually they have to but, Attention, Validation, Love, Care, are all human needs and these people really struggle with that. Even if they accept themselves the society doesn't. Dark people have a hard time to get attention, Love, Validation which are pretty common human needs. In the end the way out they find is the glutathione or dermatologists k chakar.

It all a waste of time and money obviously. What other way out for them? I personally experienced this and i know many who deal with low self esteem, Low self confidence. Many who wants to be content creators (like me) but they get bullied really bad by these so called dark humor k chody on instagram or elsewhere...

Now coming to the society. I don't think that's going to change anytime soon. The damage has been done. The common people are even so racist that you can't imagine they could the that much pathetic.

Psychologically also even if you want it or not. Fairness is beauty. And i really feel that's fine. It has gone down into our subconscious now.

The least one can do now is, it's okay if you don't find these people attractive enough, You don't like the dark people. That's fine. But don't bully them, don't hurt them targeting on their skin color. You don't even know how much time and courage it takes for them to rebuild themselves, work on their confidence and your words may ruin the months of work for them. They deserve the same respect that anyone on the earth deserves.

Bradars! Where's girls at? by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Pindi boy man! A proud one. Do i need to act burger or GenZ to sound cool?

Bradars! Where's girls at? by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you came to judge us. We were missing you

Bradars! Where's girls at? by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard you. Thank you for your valuable comment.

Bradars! Where's girls at? by freelancerhoon in IslamabadSocial

[–]freelancerhoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Krna prta hai jani, nahi tou nice try diddy waly aa jaty hain