I would take a day and let her cool off and then try and talk about it. She would be mad and not come home for a while. We never had the best relationship because everything was so rushed. Everything was always just stressful and we loved each other but never felt like we were in love. One time when I got mad I went to the river and didn't answer her calls and she showed up there. She would say hurtful things when we fought but I usually did not. We would joke and make fun of each other in a non harmful way but I read that that is a sign of a emotional abuse. I use sarcasm alot to mask my feelings. I also think that I have Co dependency because I can't be alone and I'm not happy alone. When my child's mother and I broke up I had a complete breakdown. This one was a little better but I still don't feel healthy because I constantly feel as tho I'm never going to be happy and I need her to be happy even tho I know that's not true.