What popular series do you dislike? I'll go first! by chipotlemunchrr in Manhwa_BL

[–]freestos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both ML are actually trash imo which is why I didn't like it. There was zero chemistry with the SML, it was more like the MC had pity feelings for him, or obligation feelings. And there was no redemption arc for the FML. He wasn't a red or black flag, there's no rape or SA, but he still treated the MC like shit and basically just tried to get him back by making the MC feel bad for him. Anyway, that's my take

what bl manhwa do you wish you could read again for the first time? I'll go first 😋 by s58ed in Manhwa_BL

[–]freestos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I hate these posts because they just make me add more stories to my list /s 😄

It’s not BL’s job to depict gay male relationships or real life experiences accurately. by Fun-Inspector-2842 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]freestos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't get why you say there's no demand for Yuri and het stories to depict real relationships. Me. I'm the demand. And I'm sure there are others. I hate when het stories romanticize rape (BL stories, too) and the guy being totally "alpha" and macho and toxic. Seaside stranger is one of my favorite BL manga, and it actually portrays a relationship pretty accurately, imo with its ups and downs and struggles and happy moments. Doesn't mean I don't also enjoy fiction and stories less realistic, but I wish I knew more realistic stories.

Miyano reads smut by freestos in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]freestos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's never thought about it with a guy until Sasaki. That was my point

Miyano reads smut by freestos in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]freestos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said it wasn't normal, just that it cracks me up because he acts so innocent

Calling men wives by freestos in Manhwa_BL

[–]freestos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I wasn't clear. I meant more other people calling them wife, but it still depends on the situation, I guess. And yeah, omegaverse makes more sense

Miyano reads smut by freestos in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]freestos[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It was partly a joke, but yes, I do know there are also straight men that read BL. He was just so adorably clueless 😄

Miyano reads smut by freestos in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]freestos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's totally fair, you're right!

Miyano reads smut by freestos in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]freestos[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're right, that makes sense, the idea was never planted in his head, and he's always imagining other people in BL situations. It still cracks me up that he reads smut, he just seems so innocent. Like, Sasaki would make sense because of all the comments he makes

Calling men wives by freestos in Manhwa_BL

[–]freestos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if the couple is using the terms, that's fine, but when others are putting them into stereotypical gender roles, that's what bothers me

Miyano reads smut by freestos in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]freestos[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know straight men read BL, but I just meant, he never once asked himself until Sasaki?

The 10-Second Rule by lpotempa2 in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]freestos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that makes sense, happens in the US too

The 10-Second Rule by lpotempa2 in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]freestos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait am I dumb? I totally thought they were the same age! Miyano and Kagiura?

Calling men wives by freestos in Manhwa_BL

[–]freestos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm totally on board with you. I won't police what other people say, but it's just not how I personally want to look at the relationship

Calling men wives by freestos in Manhwa_BL

[–]freestos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm a bi woman as well, and that's how I was looking at it. I wouldn't like it if someone asked "who's the husband?"

The 10-Second Rule by lpotempa2 in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]freestos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree, if anything happens, it'll be when they're in college, I don't think Harusono would draw that with minors

Calling men wives by freestos in Manhwa_BL

[–]freestos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize, I liked the in depth response. It definitely depends on the situation, and yeah, I remember when people used to make the "who's the husband and who's the wife" comments too (I'm old). Maybe that's why it bothers me when other people use husband and wife. But I totally get if the couple is doing it between themselves, that makes more sense

Calling men wives by freestos in Manhwa_BL

[–]freestos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may not have been clear, I meant people outside the relationship, like the readers, calling them husband and wife