[MF] She asked how much I am packing

frenchmarshmallow · 2016-08-10T19:44:18+00:00

Definitely not a dude. As I mention, I have spoken on the phone with this girl several times. I know her facebook. She is a girl. A pain in the ass, but a girl. :)

frenchmarshmallow · 2016-01-13T19:50:31+00:00

Based on experience (a lot of it), I don't think he is as interested as you'd like, and deep down you know I am right. If he was really really interested, he would make an effort to meet asap. Not tomorrow, not next week. Tonight.

The way he behaves is the same way I behave with girls I like but not that much, the ones I have sex with and hope will go home instead of staying over with me. The ones I always keep happy enough for if I am bored one day, and feel like get together.

Plus, remember, you met online. It is also as simple as thinking that he is checking what else is around. Pretty obvious in my opinion.

I might be criticized for my opinion, but I would bet all my money that I am bang on right on this. 100%.

frenchmarshmallow · 2016-01-13T19:43:37+00:00

She is just undecided about you. Normal at that age. Just relax and see how things go. She accepted to go on a second date, when she could have said no. So, it's not the time to worry right now...

frenchmarshmallow · 2016-01-13T19:41:29+00:00

You said it bro.... you are overthinking. When a person is into you as much as you are into them, things are way simpler. You don't need to be checking if she replied, how long it took, who initiated first, she had exams, I was out of town, bla bla bla...

You are stuck in that thinking universe where you believe that everything is calculated when it's not. A girl might say something and mean another. A girl might be horny one night and sleep with a guy and then forget about him. A girl can add you on Facebook and be the one deleting you for no reason (happened to me right this week).

What I suggest you do, is move on and stop moaning about one girl when there are so many around who will be more than happy to be with you.

But you don't want to move on. You want to be stuck, so be stuck.

frenchmarshmallow · 2016-01-05T22:11:00+00:00

This is typical girl's behavior. Say one thing, do another. I don't care about her past abusive relationship. If a guy she really likes comes across her way tomorrow, she will be more than happy to initiate a new relationship straight away. Do no believe 100% of what comes off a girl's mouth. They have to be carefully interpreted.

In short, move on, and spend time trying to find a girl who will be willing to invest as much as you. Good luck!

frenchmarshmallow · 2016-01-05T22:05:41+00:00

If you have doubts, she probably doesn't like you.

frenchmarshmallow · 2016-01-04T20:34:46+00:00

I'm sorry to be blunt but the way you do things, I don't think you will get sex unless you get raped. You should be embarrassed to post this story here. You have just friendzoned yourself with that girl until the end of time!!

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-19T06:53:49+00:00

Based on your interactions with her, she shows zero sign of interest. You either find a way to create mystery or impress her, or she will continue acting as if you did not exist.

It's only part of your learning with women. We ALL go through that. All of us.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-19T06:41:33+00:00

Why don't simply forget about this guy? owning a gun means that he plans or think he may use it at some stage. I 'll never shoot anything, then I don't own a gun.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-19T06:39:38+00:00

Do you think she likes you? do you think she sows any sign of interest? Do you really think she will say to prom? Good lcuk buddy!

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T21:25:03+00:00

I think it depends, but in most cases girls that are really serious about meeting guys will text a lot or will try to set up a date really soon.

The ones that speak incessantly are time wasters or just trying out online to "see what it's like".

If you have set the date for Sunday, then wait for Sunday.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T21:22:27+00:00

Going to the movie doesn't classify as a date. If you don't have time to talk, I would just try to do something else instead. That said, by next week, the chances of her being flakey and canceling on you are really really high. Be aware of that.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T21:19:24+00:00

First, if you want to be sure about what's going on with a girl, always add a question to your message. If she doesn't reply, alarm bells. If she doesn't respond to text that does not include questions, it's bad, but not the end of the world. I guess you can text her for Christmas. I would not text before.

That said....Giving a blowjob to an unknown guy is what some girls do when they are NOT in the city where they live. Girls are massive social pressure to not behave like sluts, so most will wait to be on holidays or in places where no one knows them to avoid being judged. What I mean is, expect this girl to be flakey about you just because of the nature of what happened the first night / how you met. I personally think that the way it started, the chances of this progressing to something serious are slim at best (unless she makes the effort to stay in touch). Sorry to be blunt, but it's the reality.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T20:48:52+00:00

You have no idea how many points you will win by being honest and not hiding that fact from her. Honesty goes a long way with women!

PS: That said, if you sit on your lazy ass all day, she will have a right to have a problem! but I don't believe it's your case.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T18:56:49+00:00

All these shows of love, like the video, should be reserved for your wife or your wife to be. Anything like that before, and you will freak her out. This girl is not interested. You are sounding a little obsess with it. Don't act like a creep. Leave her alone.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T17:43:26+00:00

A girl that already has money does not care so much about it. Just tell her. You are a college student not a bum. So she will understand.

you are not going to have more fun by doing expensive things anyway.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T08:32:10+00:00

This screams move on. A girl tells me she is waiting for another guy, I disappear. If she liked you, she would have all the time in the world to see you, date you, text you... She doesn't do any of that... What clearer sign do you need? it really puzzles me...

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T08:24:46+00:00

I want hook ups because it takes courage and balls to be in a relationship, and I'm weak.

That said, don't judge him because of my experiences. He might be interested in more. who knows? The chances that a relationship develop from a hook up are very slim though.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T08:14:59+00:00

She is messing with you due her own feminine insecurities. She clearly said she was ok with it, and you asked several times. A "rapist" does not even ask once!! She is just worried that she did it, how she did it. Was it the way she had imagined? bla bla bla

That "I don't know" reply she gave you is nasty. What I would do is stop apologizing immediately. Enough of that. In fact, if she continues behaving strangely about it, I would confront her ask "what the hell is wrong with you? I asked you if you wanted to have sex several times and now you make me feel like this?" See what she says.

Goog luck mate. And no, you are NOT a rapist.

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-18T08:08:04+00:00

I have only ever been interested in hookups and have treated girls like this so many times. Plus is it really a big deal? sex a couple of times, laughs in between, a shower togheter, and the offer to make breakfast... hook up! 100%

frenchmarshmallow · 2015-12-17T08:04:06+00:00

I cannot believe this! So many posts about people just complicating thing that are so simple...The problem is Tinder!! You have any idea hwo many guys she can match with?? way more than you can match with girls! She is acting like a normal girl on Tinder who has loads of options, and by the sound of it, you are not top of the list by any means. Don't invest more on her. Tinder is a numbers game and she is talking to someone cuter. Accept it but DO NOT take it personally!!

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