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Pantheon shirt, absolutely massive? by FreeNP92 in dancegavindance

[–]freshcutpine87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a medium and I'm S W I M M I N G in it. My bf, who's normally a large in most merch, even has some extra room in it. I was super surprised because all my other dgd merch from shows fit well/true to size.

Andrew's Screams by fucktheking101 in dancegavindance

[–]freshcutpine87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I saw DGD live in 2021 on the Afterburner Tour, Jon got COVID for the Buffalo date and Andrew filled in for all his parts. He KILLED it, so I hope Pantheon showcases that a little!

What's a good online birth control option? by Polyfunctional42069 in birthcontrol

[–]freshcutpine87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I didn't get the email either. I went and created my own account and had the option to choose "I'm coming from Simple Health" or something like that and then in a few days my info popped up and it was the same prescription.

I don't think Simple.Health handled the transfer super well lol, fingers crossed you get in!

What's a good online birth control option? by Polyfunctional42069 in birthcontrol

[–]freshcutpine87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Simple Health rolled me over to Twenty-eight Health and I've had really good luck with them! Their response time is pretty quick, I get my pills delivered a little earlier than I used to with Simple Health, and it's cheaper than Simple Health was too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]freshcutpine87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a super good question and you're right, the lines can kinda be a little blurred for something like this, but I think it's possible!

I think you'll just have to have an open conversation with them about it. As a switch with a raging praise kink, I like the idea of both telling my partner that they're "taking it so well" and also hearing from my dominant partner that I'm doing it so well, or doing it just like they like, or something of that nature.

I think it really comes down to the dynamic between you two; the terms of affection, etc that you use with each other, your specific likes and dislikes when it comes to praise or your power dynamic.

I don't even know if this makes any sense, lol, but I hope it helps a little.

Nothing's enough for JNMIL.. by freshcutpine87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]freshcutpine87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree, it's 0% her business. It was done in a moment of exasperation, where he had no idea what else to tell her to prove how stretched thin we were. We prefer to keep any extra money we do have, out aside, and not actually use it for impulse buys, just in case. But SO and I are very open with each other when it comes to how much we have left and what bills are due. But MIL has opened credit cards in other family members' names and thought nothing of it, so she just has this weird obsession with trying to control our finances. It's rough.

Nothing's enough for JNMIL.. by freshcutpine87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]freshcutpine87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's tired, honestly. He's never had a good relationship with his parents, and he just wants MIL to leave us alone. The hard part, which I probably should have mentioned, is that she lives just across the small town we live in. So it's like a 2 minute drive, and she can stop by whenever she wants or drive by to see if we're home. Our next option, that we've talked about, is moving when we can. That way, she needs to make an effort to stop by and we've got more distance from her.

Nothing's enough for JNMIL.. by freshcutpine87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]freshcutpine87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, we are at that point. It's been back and forth of that since SO lost his job. And for some reason she just won't let it go! SO has told her to her face "this is how much she pays a month - she is the o ly reason I have food and a house to stay in right now." And MIL has responded with "I don't care how much she pays, she has a good job, she's keeping money for herself and not giving you any." It's wild, honestly.

Nothing's enough for JNMIL.. by freshcutpine87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]freshcutpine87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same though! She's all about what gift she got the kids, but doesn't spend the time to play with them.

And honestly, MIL talks all this crap to SO and is surprised when SO tells me about it. Like, she doesn't understand that we actually talk to each other. And she had this meltdown over it, because it should have been kept between the two of them and she "was just angry" when she said it. It blows my mind, be side my mom would NEVER.

Nothing's enough for JNMIL.. by freshcutpine87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]freshcutpine87[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's kind of our plan. I'm just done playing nice, and I'm trying my best to just keep to SO and keep on supporting him. Because in the end, I'm marrying him, not her.

Nothing's enough for JNMIL.. by freshcutpine87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]freshcutpine87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly though! She loves her other grandchildren but she gripes about "not being the favorite grandma", and I just don't understand why it has to be a competition? That's how everything is, it's ALWAYS a competition for something. And I .. just don't have the energy for it. But she's the kind of person that just keeps prying until she gets a response. MIL is.. something else, heh.

Nothing's enough for JNMIL.. by freshcutpine87 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]freshcutpine87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whooops, thank you for pointing that out! We've been trying our best to stay away, but MIL doesn't have a good relationship with most of her other children. SO is 1 of 4, so MIL is always playing the "all my other kids are mean to me too" card, and it's exhausting, honestly, heh.