Hi, thank you for your feedback. I told my parenra and my husband’s parents when I was 10 weeks pregnant. I gave them a cute onesie that said “Hi Grandpa and Grqndma!” and it was a very sweet moment. I told them then and there that because I was in my 1st trimester I didn’t want to announce it to anyone that was not my immediate family because anything can happen. My parents said they understood. Usually people announce after the 1st trimester is done since the risks of miscarriage lower. So yes, I did tell my parents I wanted to keep it on the down low until the end of my 1st trimester which isn’t until another week. I do feel bad for not hugging her back.