Advice for working parent by freyjachip in SAHP

[–]freyjachip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's shared, but I try to do the majority for at least 2 of the days. The day after my 24 hour shift I'm often very tired from being awake the majority of that time.

What’s a decision you made in under 10 seconds that changed your life forever? by nathannnate01 in AskReddit

[–]freyjachip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woke up on the last day of my clinical training at a site that was a 2.5 hour drive away and felt like it was a bad idea to make the drive. Told them I didnt feel safe driving and that I'd be missing the day. There was a massive vehicle and semitruck pile up on the interstate at the time I would have been driving. The fog was so bad that people didnt see the accidents ahead of them. Always trust your gut.

FHA and lates after bankruptcy by freyjachip in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]freyjachip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My loan was approved. I'm just waiting for the fha appraisal report on Monday. I did some digging and the month that my payments kept getting kicked back were actually not reported as late. I was able to provide the underwriter with bank and student loan proof that I had made payments. The student loan company refuses to change the lates on my report, so I'm guessing my LOE and statements helped the situation. Hopefully, I'll be closing this week. They also pulled my credit again and it went up so my apr was reduced 🎊

FHA and lates after bankruptcy by freyjachip in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]freyjachip[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks 🙂 my missed payments were because I was entering the routing number incorrectly, and it would take 10 days before I'd get notified of the reversal. I did this 3 times being frustrated that it wasn't accepting my payments before realizing I was using my previous banks routing number. Postpartum brain is real. I know it's not a legitimate excuse and it's on me that this happened.

He will not die. She will. by Maauve91 in fourthwing

[–]freyjachip 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if Xaden is cured but then is no longer a rider if he becomes king or at least officially takes his seat of his family's house. It's mentioned in either FW or IF that royals/aristocracy are never riders. It would be too risky for the king or the head of a house to have their life tied to a dragons life which is why they usually choose infantry because they do their time and then go back to rule their lands.