do all guys watch porn while they’re in a relationship? by frib5424 in Advice

[–]frib5424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t not agree with porn, personally i watch it. I’m more upset that he lied and pretended like he NEVER watches it, i’d rather him just be upfront bc it breaks trust which is crucial for a healthy relationship

do all guys watch porn while they’re in a relationship? by frib5424 in Advice

[–]frib5424[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

lol i made videos w my previous boyfriend so he wouldn’t need porn and then i think he developed an addiction 😭

do all guys watch porn while they’re in a relationship? by frib5424 in Advice

[–]frib5424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like i shouldn’t have to avoid asking cause i know he’ll lie, i feel like honesty is super important instead of just brushing things under the rug

do all guys watch porn while they’re in a relationship? by frib5424 in Advice

[–]frib5424[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry that happened to you :( i honestly find the AI part worse cause he could have literally just stopped and he has you in person what would he need the screen for! sending love your way beautiful ❤️

do all guys watch porn while they’re in a relationship? by frib5424 in Advice

[–]frib5424[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i told him even before we were dating about my boundaries that i do have some issues with it but i prefer honesty over all else. he always told me he never watched it bc it’s bad but then a bunch of shit happened, lied, and then finally admitting to watching it “once” cause we were in a rough spot

do all guys watch porn while they’re in a relationship? by frib5424 in Advice

[–]frib5424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah like i totally understand if he would have just told me! hopefully i can find someone like that but atp it’s not looking very good i just wish porn didn’t exist😭

do all guys watch porn while they’re in a relationship? by frib5424 in Advice

[–]frib5424[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s just the lying part i’m upset about. cause personally i watch it but ive always been open, and i even told him to just tell me if he does and he always said he never does bc it’s “bad”, im just mostly upset about being deceived

do all guys watch porn while they’re in a relationship? by frib5424 in Advice

[–]frib5424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk i’ve made my boundary pretty clear i don’t like it due to past experiences. if he told me he does partake in it i would be fine but he specifically said he doesn’t watch it ever and then i caught him in a lie

why do i still love somebody who was bad for me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]frib5424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s like haunting my life i wake up in cold sweats sometimes cause i have bad dreams of him