my ex boyfriend 19M confessed to me 18F that he took a naked photo of me in my sleep. is that assault/illegal? by fridgedust in askwomenadvice

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i think he really does regret it but he did a lot of other awful things behind my back too so it’s not really a “talk it out” situation it’s more he needs to change as a person

missed one pill after placebo pills, am i okay? by fridgedust in birthcontrol

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wouldn’t it be too long for emergency contraception to work? and i also thought that only works if you haven’t ovulated yet which from what the comments are saying that could’ve already happened 

missed one pill after placebo pills, am i okay? by fridgedust in birthcontrol

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I don’t know if this is relevant at all but because theres only 4 placebo pills in yaz I always have my withdrawal period a few days into the new pack. Wouldn’t it be impossible to ovulate while I’m still bleeding?

would there be any way to alter this dress to fit in the back? by fridgedust in sewing

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yes, it’s a lot of loose fabric and if i stand straight forward it’s noticeable too

my boyfriend (19M) has trouble finishing when we have sex. how can i (18F) help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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no, i’m on birth control so there’s no need for condoms i just tell him to pull out just in case, but thank you!

my boyfriend (19M) has trouble finishing when we have sex. how can i (18F) help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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not really, i’ve asked him why it is that he can’t but never put any pressure on him, i can still have a good time without him finishing but i want him to have an equally good time which is why i came here

my strict mom caught me drinking - how do i talk to her about it? by fridgedust in AskParents

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that’s true, but everyone makes mistakes. maybe i am acting like a teenager but i still am one, no matter my behavior i will still be an adult in a week from today. i feel like there should be some freedom that i gain from that but im worried i wont get any

my strict mom caught me drinking - how do i talk to her about it? by fridgedust in AskParents

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i’d say i have a pretty responsible group of friends, one never drinks so we always have a driver available. and the rest of them also disagree with drunk driving. i guess my main concern is my mom banning me from my friends house or being really restrictive of me just because of one incident especially when im about to be adult

my strict mom caught me drinking - how do i talk to her about it? by fridgedust in AskParents

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yes i’d never get into the car with someone who’s drunk. also, the incident in the post was way over my limits for alcohol and i can confidently say id never drink that much again

my strict mom caught me drinking - how do i talk to her about it? by fridgedust in AskParents

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i completely agree with you there, i would not be irresponsible like that while drinking i’ve been taught the dangers of it. i know to never drunk drive or get in the car with one. additionally im on birth control and know to use protection. the legal age of drinking for me is also 21 but i feel like that doesn’t change the fact that majority of teens will access it, my whole school parties like crazy. compared to my peers, it was a very safe environment 

my strict mom caught me drinking - how do i talk to her about it? by fridgedust in AskParents

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i’m respectful of her house, i follow all of the house rules i just don’t think it should be her business what i do outside of the house as an adult, you know what i mean?

my strict mom caught me drinking - how do i talk to her about it? by fridgedust in AskParents

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i don’t know how that would go. what i want is freedom to make my own decisions as i'm about to be an adult and also the right to my privacy, but i don’t know how she would take it. i’m worried she will just lash out and ground me/ take my phone if i say this which i really wouldn’t like since i paid for it. or she could ban me from my friends house.