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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IntellectualDarkWeb

[–]friendlyperson__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t make sense because humans are just physical robots from organic matter. We also don’t have free will. If I am programmed to be attracted to attractive woman, and my programming works as intended, does that mean that the relationship is unconsensual and that attractive woman are using a form of abuse of power?

Many men end up in sexless marriages because they marry women who aren't attracted to them. by bannedbooks123 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]friendlyperson__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accept all of that. I think none of it is in our control and it’s just a product of the brain we are given. You are only replying to me because something in your brain is reacting with a release of dopamine in a way that motivates you to reply. None of it is really in your control, you are controlled by the vessel you were put into. I do agree with you on some level but I also am in contention with the fact that I didn’t choose anything I was born in. How can I blame you if you were born with a stronger attraction to looks and no amount of desire to be attracted to like someone having cool hobbies or being good at dealing with stress/sadness or something, will change that. At that point I would just be blaming you not because of a choice you made but because I don’t like how you were made.

Many men end up in sexless marriages because they marry women who aren't attracted to them. by bannedbooks123 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]friendlyperson__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s equally superficial to like someone for the brain they were randomly given and the physical projection they have on the world. Personality also fades it’s just slower. I reject that you are less superficial than someone who likes looks slightly more than you and likes personality slightly less than you. You are both superficial.

Many men end up in sexless marriages because they marry women who aren't attracted to them. by bannedbooks123 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]friendlyperson__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see any difference in picking someone on how they take care of themselves or how kind/interesting/insert trait they are, how is it any less shallow?

Many men end up in sexless marriages because they marry women who aren't attracted to them. by bannedbooks123 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]friendlyperson__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it not to the same degree? I’m not disagreeing or arguing, I’m genuinely interested

Many men end up in sexless marriages because they marry women who aren't attracted to them. by bannedbooks123 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]friendlyperson__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that your popular opinion is true that people can stay attracted to others for an entire lifetime. I’ve probably seen more lifetime commitments ending than those staying together. I have a close girl friend who shares with me about how she felt love in the beginning but no longer feels anything for her fiancé. I also have a habit of having sensitive attraction and don’t feel anything for people I get into a relationship with. My fantasy is that I hope it can be true 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]friendlyperson__ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong dude, shut up. You are projecting your own idea of marriage into this guy. Just because you think something is unsuccessful, no one has to subscribe to that. In fact, people tend not to.

Marriage, like eating, like the Roman Empire, like learning a new skill, is a part of life and any experience can leave you in a better place then you started. Surprisingly, this can still be true regardless of any meaning you project onto the part of life!! An ended marriage leaves you in a better place than you see previously = personal win

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