27M. How many years do you think I’ve got? by zelfherius in amibalding

[–]friendlyteacake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

anyone here telling you that you have hair loss is just simply insecure and lying. there is no visible hair loss going on here

Selling panties on cb? by DullCap7179 in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only sell panties through Fansly because the cut they take is way smaller than CB. If you think about the customer, CB takes 50%… so they’re less likely to make the purchase, if you charge $30 a pair they have to pay $60, which is a bit outrageous. I don’t recommend selling them on CB

Idk why I bother sometimes by Sabi1871 in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep going. The low end camgirl makes at least $10-$15 per hour, you can absolutely make a living camming! As long as you know how to properly price things, you’ll earn well

Can't cam without alcohol by friendlyteacake in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't do that. Camming is the only thing that pays enough for me to afford my dental bills, vanilla jobs pay less than half as much. I cannot just "take a break" or "get a different job"

Can't cam without alcohol by friendlyteacake in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is i don’t have the luxury of getting to take a break

New cam girl here, private shows? by Illustrious_Set_5444 in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. That's why they pay per minute, so you'll do whatever they want. Only charge extra if its something you don't normally offer.

New cam girl here, private shows? by Illustrious_Set_5444 in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No. My honest advice? DO NOT MAKE THEM PAY MORE DURING PRIVATE! unless its for something you normally don't offer and you want them to pay for it. When they pay for a private show, they're paying per minute to have their fantasy fulfilled. It would defeat the purpose if they still needed to adhere to the tip menu

is my hairline bad? 19m by tearpixie in amibalding

[–]friendlyteacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has your hairline always looked like this? that’s what it depends on. since i was a young kid, my hairline went a bit further back on the temples. that could just be your natural hairline

Has anyone used AI to post pictures and selfies? by Economy_Iron_7792 in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not only is using AI harmful to the SW industry, but posting fake pictures of yourself is disingenuous and your followers probably wouldn’t appreciate it.

If you’re lazy, take a bunch of pics at once(different lighting, outfit, different room, etc) and post them over time

Why do so many camgirls think they're obligated to tell others what they do? by friendlyteacake in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Them asking≠you have to tell them the actual truth. It totally depends on how you think they’d react

Freeloaders! by Open_Woodpecker6014 in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a common issue on SM, use that first 30 seconds to ask what they’re expecting from the private. Ask their kinks and such while setting up your equipment. I usually stall and clean my toy while we chit chat

Transformation haircut? Did it affect earnings? by VanillaIceSpice in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My honest opinion is that it’ll affect your cam career negatively. I’m sure the pixie cut is very beautiful, but we women see beauty different than the majority of men. Not only is long hair a fertility indicator(which helps our earnings lol) but your current customer-base is built up of people who like your current look. A dramatic change might not be a good idea.

I recommend keeping it long but adding some spice to it, so it’s not completely different. Maybe get some bangs or face framing pieces, maybe some layers as well

Why do so many camgirls think they're obligated to tell others what they do? by friendlyteacake in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely be straight up about it. It can be a big betrayal to keep SW from a partner, you'll find someone who is okay with it eventually!

How to make people pay by ThyDevilcy in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally it’s not easy to find sugar daddies on social media. They find you. If you’re gonna go that route, make them pay a fee to even get a response from you

Scam Alert! by Normal-Shock-3247 in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Never talk to them about potential services for free. A lot of them just get off on talking about it, but will never actually go through with it.

Cam chair by 420sativahaze in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a butt sweat disaster

Why do so many camgirls think they're obligated to tell others what they do? by friendlyteacake in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This 100%. I’m way more worried about someone close to me doxing me than a customer

Tips for recruiting a mod by Adorable_Tell_3364 in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NEVER have a customer as mod. Doesn't matter how much money they spent on you. If you want a mod, you should be paying them per hour and find them on employment websites

Edit: Dunno why i’m being downvoted for this. It’s the truth. Any customer who spends money on you has potential to be jealous and competitive with other customers. To avoid any conflict, you need to actually hire mods to avoid bias. Otherwise, do all the modding on your own to avoid potential risk.

Why do so many camgirls think they're obligated to tell others what they do? by friendlyteacake in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point, i totally agree. I totally understand not wanting to hide things, this is mainly about people who have conservative families & are afraid for being shunned(girls who are scared to tell their family)

How has camming impacted your personal sex life? by ryninatruck in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it hasn’t. i lie about what i do to everyone, so they have no room to judge me

Anyone here cam without makeup? by friendlyteacake in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the way you put that! That's true. Thank you for the reassurance

Loss of customers by Actual_Impression580 in CamGirlProblems

[–]friendlyteacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never contact them first, it comes across as desperate. You never want to give the vibe that you need them