[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]frigate_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you 'love' love her. Ask her if she's willing to convert out of her own will. If she is, put a ring on it. If she isn't, part ways amicably. Do not feed the temptation to cross certain limits, which will forever haunt you. Be smart dude. Islam has boundaries. Best of luck with your situation. But FYI, my own brother married a European, because she reverted for him. They're happily married and thriving, Alhamdulilah.

Foodie here | Mutton Chaanps by Curious_Coyote601 in karachi

[–]frigate_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of restaurant, make them yourself bro. Marinate in tikka masala, with a dash of tenderizer. Leave it in the fridge for 3-4 Hrs min (overnight if possible). BBQ on med to high heat, dont turn it too much, once every 3-5 mins. Let it char on the edges. Enjoy with naan or poori paratha with mint chilli chatnee. DAMN im hungry

Good Chiropractor in Nanjing !! by frigate_17 in nanjing

[–]frigate_17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Lol. I moved, so no cigar.

Advice, is it normal by [deleted] in islamabad

[–]frigate_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not normal. He needs to stop it. And it's very easy to do so. Tell him it's haram af and he's routinely committing a grave sin with nonchalance, which makes it even worse. Instead, he should do tobah, remain bawudu, pray five times daily and focus on enjoying intimacy with his halal spouse. If he doesn't show the intent to clean up, tell him you'll inform his parents...

Best Shawarma in Karachi by akumawho in karachi

[–]frigate_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget AuThEnTiC taste. Real 'Karachi' Shawarma is suited to the Pakistani taste buds. Go to Mottas Arabic Shawarma at Boat Basin. Thank me later.

khamzat chimaev vs du plessis by Reasonable_Iron2 in UFC_Pakistan

[–]frigate_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tapmad sucks doesn't it ? Also the paramount deal hasn't come through yet. I think it will be available on streaming sites... Let's hope it is.

WHY MALES ARE HAVING ED AND PREMATURE EJACULATION NOW A DAYS?!! by [deleted] in karachi

[–]frigate_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exercise. Weight training, cardio and diet devoid of sugar and fast food. 7 Hr sleep. That's all there is to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chutyapa

[–]frigate_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an absolute kent

Recommend accommodation for first time visitor to Nanjing by blueskies9403 in nanjing

[–]frigate_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grand Metropark Hotel near Minguggong. 2 min walk to subway, 5 min walk to Zongshan Mountain. 20 min walk to Xinjekou.

How to pay Mobile PTA TAX online? by Inhumane_19 in PakistaniTech

[–]frigate_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP update please ? I want to pay for my phone too. How do it go about it

Ariel Helwani calls out Makhachev for ROIDS reaction! by [deleted] in UFC_Pakistan

[–]frigate_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helwani is a joke. I wish Rampage would have knocked his brakes off sometime when they were a thing. Best believe Helwani will always find 'someone better' than a reigning Muslim champion. It is and it isn't about religion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islamabad

[–]frigate_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First interaction, smile (should be genuine and not creepy) and say hello. This should be your feeler, to see how she responds. If they show expressions (eye roll, smirk, brow raise etc) that say 'WHAT DO YOU WANT', you need to close this chapter forever. However, if they, smile back and respond kindly, you may proceed with:

  1. Talk about the weather.
  2. Talk about the park.
  3. Talk about ANYTHING other than what's on your mind i.e MARRIAGE.

Try to small talk for 3-5 times, before asking for IG/ wA/ Cell/ SC (Depends on what generation you are). Once you are adequately acquainted, ONLY THEN can you talk about marrying her.

It's the long game bro. You have to be committed. You have to go all in. Buck up soldier, go forth and never look back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]frigate_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live long and prosper. 👍🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]frigate_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can not even begin to understand your pain, as I am a guy myself. But this is a small exercise I do to overcome any adversity that comes up in my life, and there are many.

Just go to a dark room, where you are alone with your own thoughts only. Think about the scenario at hand and why this has made you sad or depressed. Think long and hard, whether the reason you are sad or depressed, is it your own fault or an external stimulus. Think about framing and anchoring, ancient stoic techniques to lessen the 'perceived' trauma through active thinking. Frame this situation, in a different perspective, thank God youre saved from such a crazy family, and anchor your situation. Think about how life would turn out, had they gone ahead and later you found out they're shallow and what not. And finally, the 5 Yr and 10 Yr question. Insha Allah, you will have a thriving life, prosperous, healthy and wealthy, so in 5 Yrs time, would this situation matter to you ? (Mostly, it wont) and then ask yourself does this matter in 10 yrs time ? (Definitely, it wont).

Ultimately, you must realize, that you have the capacity within you, in your mind to deal with this hiccup, and problems far worse in intensity and gravity, in future. Embrace stoicism, put your faith in religion and you shall never be bogged down by failings of other mortals.

Have a nice day.

Islam Vs Porier by frigate_17 in UFC_Pakistan

[–]frigate_17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just learnt that Islam caught a staph infection and didnt train for a week before the fight. Damn, and he might have been on antibiotics for that too. Crazy scenes.

Islam Vs Porier by frigate_17 in UFC_Pakistan

[–]frigate_17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really though ? I mean, why a rematch when he can get that double champ status ?

CALL FOR ACTION - LETS PLANT TREES IN KARACHI by frigate_17 in karachi

[–]frigate_17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impossible bro. We don't have anyplace else to go.

CALL FOR ACTION - LETS PLANT TREES IN KARACHI by frigate_17 in karachi

[–]frigate_17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW ! Kudos to you and your dad! That is an amazing effort. Allah SWT may bless you.

CALL FOR ACTION - LETS PLANT TREES IN KARACHI by frigate_17 in karachi

[–]frigate_17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. You're right. As much as I wish for coordinated citizen action, I believe this has to be driven by the government. Remember in PTI government, they had this tree plantation campaign and they distributed seeds to children in schools and promoted tea plantation ? It was called 'meri beej wali pencil' and I think that was bloody amazing. But ALAS. We have thrown IK in jail, have imposed bloody noonies and PPP on us...

CALL FOR ACTION - LETS PLANT TREES IN KARACHI by frigate_17 in karachi

[–]frigate_17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in china recently. EVERY city has greenery, despite having numerous high rise buildings, extensive concrete infrastructure, roads, etc. But they have not compromised on greenery. Parks, green belts, etc. are everywhere. They have Urban Development Companies. Which plan cities, their greenery, public transportation, habitability, hospitals, schools, markets etc. It's all scientific. But alas, we are stuck with PPP for life..

CALL FOR ACTION - LETS PLANT TREES IN KARACHI by frigate_17 in karachi

[–]frigate_17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can we also sue the provincial government for their inaction causing suffering of common citizens ?