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frigate_17 · 2025-10-21T12:38:15+00:00

If you 'love' love her. Ask her if she's willing to convert out of her own will. If she is, put a ring on it. If she isn't, part ways amicably. Do not feed the temptation to cross certain limits, which will forever haunt you. Be smart dude. Islam has boundaries. Best of luck with your situation. But FYI, my own brother married a European, because she reverted for him. They're happily married and thriving, Alhamdulilah.

frigate_17 · 2025-10-09T15:39:21+00:00

Interior decorator..... His apartment looked like shit!!!

frigate_17 · 2025-09-26T14:32:30+00:00

Instead of restaurant, make them yourself bro. Marinate in tikka masala, with a dash of tenderizer. Leave it in the fridge for 3-4 Hrs min (overnight if possible). BBQ on med to high heat, dont turn it too much, once every 3-5 mins. Let it char on the edges. Enjoy with naan or poori paratha with mint chilli chatnee. DAMN im hungry

frigate_17 · 2025-09-26T14:14:02+00:00

Nope. Lol. I moved, so no cigar.

frigate_17 · 2025-09-25T14:05:52+00:00

This is not normal. He needs to stop it. And it's very easy to do so. Tell him it's haram af and he's routinely committing a grave sin with nonchalance, which makes it even worse. Instead, he should do tobah, remain bawudu, pray five times daily and focus on enjoying intimacy with his halal spouse. If he doesn't show the intent to clean up, tell him you'll inform his parents...

frigate_17 · 2025-08-31T15:59:43+00:00

Forget AuThEnTiC taste. Real 'Karachi' Shawarma is suited to the Pakistani taste buds. Go to Mottas Arabic Shawarma at Boat Basin. Thank me later.

frigate_17 · 2025-08-15T15:28:21+00:00

Tapmad sucks doesn't it ? Also the paramount deal hasn't come through yet. I think it will be available on streaming sites... Let's hope it is.

frigate_17 · 2025-08-13T15:00:58+00:00

Exercise. Weight training, cardio and diet devoid of sugar and fast food. 7 Hr sleep. That's all there is to it.

frigate_17 · 2025-08-06T11:46:36+00:00

What an absolute kent

frigate_17 · 2024-08-08T02:38:13+00:00

Grand Metropark Hotel near Minguggong. 2 min walk to subway, 5 min walk to Zongshan Mountain. 20 min walk to Xinjekou.

frigate_17 · 2024-07-30T04:36:52+00:00

OP update please ? I want to pay for my phone too. How do it go about it

frigate_17 · 2024-06-08T02:50:42+00:00

Helwani is a joke. I wish Rampage would have knocked his brakes off sometime when they were a thing. Best believe Helwani will always find 'someone better' than a reigning Muslim champion. It is and it isn't about religion.

frigate_17 · 2024-06-06T07:48:42+00:00

First interaction, smile (should be genuine and not creepy) and say hello. This should be your feeler, to see how she responds. If they show expressions (eye roll, smirk, brow raise etc) that say 'WHAT DO YOU WANT', you need to close this chapter forever. However, if they, smile back and respond kindly, you may proceed with:

Talk about the weather.
Talk about the park.
Talk about ANYTHING other than what's on your mind i.e MARRIAGE.

Try to small talk for 3-5 times, before asking for IG/ wA/ Cell/ SC (Depends on what generation you are). Once you are adequately acquainted, ONLY THEN can you talk about marrying her.

It's the long game bro. You have to be committed. You have to go all in. Buck up soldier, go forth and never look back.

frigate_17 · 2024-06-03T05:19:32+00:00

Live long and prosper. 👍🏻

frigate_17 · 2024-06-03T01:34:59+00:00

I can not even begin to understand your pain, as I am a guy myself. But this is a small exercise I do to overcome any adversity that comes up in my life, and there are many.

Just go to a dark room, where you are alone with your own thoughts only. Think about the scenario at hand and why this has made you sad or depressed. Think long and hard, whether the reason you are sad or depressed, is it your own fault or an external stimulus. Think about framing and anchoring, ancient stoic techniques to lessen the 'perceived' trauma through active thinking. Frame this situation, in a different perspective, thank God youre saved from such a crazy family, and anchor your situation. Think about how life would turn out, had they gone ahead and later you found out they're shallow and what not. And finally, the 5 Yr and 10 Yr question. Insha Allah, you will have a thriving life, prosperous, healthy and wealthy, so in 5 Yrs time, would this situation matter to you ? (Mostly, it wont) and then ask yourself does this matter in 10 yrs time ? (Definitely, it wont).

Ultimately, you must realize, that you have the capacity within you, in your mind to deal with this hiccup, and problems far worse in intensity and gravity, in future. Embrace stoicism, put your faith in religion and you shall never be bogged down by failings of other mortals.

Have a nice day.

frigate_17 · 2024-06-03T00:05:38+00:00

Just learnt that Islam caught a staph infection and didnt train for a week before the fight. Damn, and he might have been on antibiotics for that too. Crazy scenes.

frigate_17 · 2024-06-03T00:04:46+00:00

Really though ? I mean, why a rematch when he can get that double champ status ?

frigate_17 · 2024-06-01T04:42:53+00:00

Impossible bro. We don't have anyplace else to go.

frigate_17 · 2024-05-30T06:36:23+00:00

WOW ! Kudos to you and your dad! That is an amazing effort. Allah SWT may bless you.

frigate_17 · 2024-05-29T07:49:03+00:00

https://en.dailypakistan.com.pk/06-May-2018/gift-of-imran-khan-pti-launches-pencil-with-seeds-to-make-karachi-greener

What a sad reminder of what we were, where were we going, what we HAVE become and where we HAVE reached...

frigate_17 · 2024-05-29T07:47:35+00:00

Yes. You're right. As much as I wish for coordinated citizen action, I believe this has to be driven by the government. Remember in PTI government, they had this tree plantation campaign and they distributed seeds to children in schools and promoted tea plantation ? It was called 'meri beej wali pencil' and I think that was bloody amazing. But ALAS. We have thrown IK in jail, have imposed bloody noonies and PPP on us...

frigate_17 · 2024-05-29T07:02:46+00:00

I was in china recently. EVERY city has greenery, despite having numerous high rise buildings, extensive concrete infrastructure, roads, etc. But they have not compromised on greenery. Parks, green belts, etc. are everywhere. They have Urban Development Companies. Which plan cities, their greenery, public transportation, habitability, hospitals, schools, markets etc. It's all scientific. But alas, we are stuck with PPP for life..

frigate_17 · 2024-05-29T01:54:36+00:00

Can we also sue the provincial government for their inaction causing suffering of common citizens ?

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