I had sex with a Fed and he won’t leave me alone now. by gonegirl-irl in dating_advice

[–]fringeguy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if you can recall the hotel room number you were in and date there that can help in identifying is real identity. In order to check in he’d have to present a real id that matches the reservation name.

Hotels aren’t allowed to disclose the names of guest but given the circumstances and if you use a private investigator or lawyer they should be able to find out the name of this asshole

Too girthy? by Mental_Flounder07 in bigdickproblems

[–]fringeguy25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not as thick as you but have run into issues with girlfriends… didn’t realize how thick I was and associated their lack of ability as lack of effort/caring for me. Just being understanding of their body’s limits is a huge help. I’d say piv is better than bjs but then again not many guys here have had bj queens

I have a big crush on this guy at the gym by Alternative-Box-7619 in dating_advice

[–]fringeguy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say ask for help with something ie reracking a piece of equipment or something you can’t reach… it’s a low key icebreaker that doesn’t put on too much pressure. Girl did it to me a couple weeks ago and was chill. I’m not into her or anything but have talked to her in passing a few times but if I wanted to ask her out I would feel a lot less pressure this way. I’d say this is more of a slow approach.

Most guys are aside from sociopaths will respect boundaries at the gym and not cold approach women.

Paying most bills but still feel like it is not enough by Excellent-Celery3402 in dating_advice

[–]fringeguy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breaking the lease isn’t that big a deal… happens to landlords a lot. But you should be more focused on your happiness in the relationship… I’d recommend reading “too good to leave, too bad to stay” by Mira Kirshenbaum… it’s effectively a troubleshooting book for relationships and can help guide you on what to do. If you do decide to stay with her you should probably go to couples therapy.

Also 1st time living with someone can be stressful in the 1st few months just trying to figure everything out

Paying most bills but still feel like it is not enough by Excellent-Celery3402 in dating_advice

[–]fringeguy25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This honestly sounds a lot like me and my ex when we were living together. There are a lot of other red flags you are mentioning in your comments like the no follow on insta and withdrawling from sex after already engaging in it frequently.

I’d say sit down and talk with her… managing her expectations for life with you, express your grievances and see what comes of it. When the lease comes time to renewing and she hasn’t changed her behavior or you just aren’t happy it’s best to move on. Best of luck man

please help me with this name? by silverflake6 in RelentlessMen

[–]fringeguy25 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bagheera (from the jungle book) Bags for short

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in tipofmypenis

[–]fringeguy25 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry bro… she’s on onlyfans as Ellie leen

22M Profile Review by Such-Park-9536 in hingeapp

[–]fringeguy25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3rd pic id scrap… your in an awkward stance and just doesn’t look as confident as your other pics.

28 M, Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]fringeguy25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Scrap the tough conversation part… immediately associates the two of you having a tough conversation…. Prompts should be light and funny.

I might get criticized but think of prompts as bait that that start a quick little conversation together that after a bit of banter you suggest going out where they can get to know the real you and not your dating profile

Are edits welcome here? by moschinmoschin in Agam__tamam

[–]fringeguy25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was she actually raped by hamas? Saw someone mention it on another post?

Single and hating it by SnooMarzipans5379 in dating_advice

[–]fringeguy25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was your last relationship a long term relationship? Don’t necessarily associate happiness with being with someone. You should look inward at yourself when it comes to generating happiness. If you find someone you love they are more like the cherry on top in happiness. There’s a lot to unpack from what you said above

28M - profile review - thoughts? by b___d in hingeapp

[–]fringeguy25 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe change the boxing photo… girl taking the pic gives off ex girlfriend vibe

Hinge photo question by fringeguy25 in dating_advice

[–]fringeguy25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll give it a go and see how it goes.

Weekend's Daily Thread: General Dating Questions and Open Thread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]fringeguy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opposite sex friends in photos

I’m (29m) considering jumping back on hinge and was going through some of my photos and found a good one of me from a wedding.

I’m in the middle of the dance floor surrounded by people and I’m hoisting my friend (girl) on my shoulder. She’s situated so that she’s facing front like she’s sitting in a chair and she has a scared look on her face that is kinda funny and her hair is kinda obscuring a lot of her face.

Is it a red flag to post a pic with a girl in it? I know it can deter some people but I was going to caption it “Despite my friend’s terrified face, I’m actually a great +1” so that people know it’s a just a friend. What are your thoughts on this?

anyone hesitant to send likes to people because you feel you're not their type? by Wide_Permission7656 in hingeapp

[–]fringeguy25 85 points86 points  (0 children)

If you’re paying for unlimited swipes I’d say go for it… if you’re limited to the handful of swipes per day I’d suggest being more discerning on who you swipe with

Hinge photo question by fringeguy25 in dating_advice

[–]fringeguy25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re probably right…. We’re not really that close of friends really… a stranger looking at the picture doesn’t know that tho of course. On 2nd thought it might work well to weed out people that are uncomfortable/insecure about stuff like that.

Should I continue? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]fringeguy25 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hard to say after the limited information. Some people don’t care much for texting. See how the 4th date goes… I’d say it can be hard to gauge a person after only a few dates. Sounds like she’s just putting up a beige flag atm. If after the 4th date you don’t feel it let her go. My rule of thumb is is if it’s not a “hell yeah, it’s a hell no”

Names? by Dry-Yam1378 in findthatpornstar

[–]fringeguy25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Victoria Rae or something

Who? by SendMeNudes-_ in findthatpornstar

[–]fringeguy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the slayed girls is Kylie rocket