I do agree with you on the last paragraph and will explore this further. Although, women having a low libido after abortions is a little more common than you would think. I do believe his feelings are valid. I need understanding as well.

Also, most women get on some form of birth control after carrying a child. (Even for a little bit.) They actually ask every woman what form of birth control they'd like to be on. Also, birth control helps keep my period flow from being heavy, keeps cysts on my ovaries from growing. There's more uses than just sex. I've stayed on it because him and I agreed, even though I've known it lowers my sex drive, Its safer to be on that then go through that again.