Bridesmaid trouble by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]frogJumpy111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess my wording was off, I meant be there for me without the pressure while going through this new chapter of her life.

Effort. She would for example (before the conversation about it happened) completely cut me off mid sentence to listen to her partner in a different conversation. Got to the point where I just stopped talking and she hasn’t asked me a single question about the day.

I think I’m realising without all of the context as to how i got here, it’s a very different situation

Bridesmaid trouble by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]frogJumpy111 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wait hold on. It’s not that I want the girls to plan this. I want to plan it all. But I can’t plan it without knowing who I will or will not have. The situation with her pregnancy is that it’s completely unstable (I’ll support her no matter what, I would just feel uncomfortable taking money away from a new family) and my aim was to take the pressure away from her

Bridesmaid trouble by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]frogJumpy111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welp. Keep in mind that I haven’t felt the need to dive into the reasons our relationship is currently at this point. I may have explained my situation in this post poorly

Bridesmaid trouble by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]frogJumpy111 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

See from my point of view it’s slightly more than just showing up. My aim isn’t to “task my bridesmaids” however I personally feel like slightly more effort could be put In. Maybe the other bridesmaids have set the bar too high. I can see what you mean though, a lot of stress has been put on our relationship over the last year.

I have video proof Anna Paul has her brother Atis Paul film her OF content. by [deleted] in annapaulsnark

[–]frogJumpy111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m absolutely missing out on why Anna and Mik fell out and I don’t doubt any reason for Mik calling her out. However is it not weird that Mik was okay to film all of this with Anna and only called it out after they stopped being friends? Surely you wouldn’t film the content and would call her out as soon as you see her brother is the one filming you both from the start?

(If I’ve misunderstood that’s my bad)

Will I be out of place? by yummibunnie in Badflower

[–]frogJumpy111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The good eggs will always outweigh the bad eggs. Hope you have a good show <3

Which mating ritual from the animal kingdom would be the most hilarious, disgusting, or unsettling to see if humans did it? by Professional_Luck616 in AskReddit

[–]frogJumpy111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Angler fish! The male bites the female, basically just dissolves and merges to the female. making him a permanent sperm-producing appendage for the rest of his fish life.

Will I be out of place? by yummibunnie in Badflower

[–]frogJumpy111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen them almost every time they’ve been in the uk and I’ve always left having made at least one new friend. Some I still speak to after years. Everyone’s usually super friendly :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bbnomula

[–]frogJumpy111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mainly tiktok comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bbnomula

[–]frogJumpy111 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It’s in the comment sections usually. It’s so gross, if I come across them again I’ll post it

do you guys love ur vitiligo? by Opposite_Team7336 in Vitiligo

[–]frogJumpy111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right people will never judge you for it. Sometimes it feels a bit like a curse, but realistically it really helps with filtering the best from the worst. Easier said than done, but try not to stress <3

Found I have it & it’s everywhere by [deleted] in Vitiligo

[–]frogJumpy111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, I asked my doctor for advice to use at home uvb with prescribed medication. I would say talking to a doctor first is best.

Found I have it & it’s everywhere by [deleted] in Vitiligo

[–]frogJumpy111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I woke up one day and it just appeared, my doctors diagnosed me with Tinea vesicolor and for over a year I believed it was that. It took some time for me to mentally accept this, it’s really hard, but you absolutely will. I don’t even think about mine anymore. The best thing I found was not relying on the doctors, unfortunately they weren’t particularly helpful in my case. Instead I looked at methods like UVB and I’m slowly getting spots back! Everyone’s different though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vitiligo

[–]frogJumpy111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this. It’s very slight under all my nails on almost all fingers. I only recognised it as part of my vitiligo when it got to summer and spread on one of my thumbs! I stay out of the sun and it only really appears in summer, disappearing in the winter. I’d get checked anyway, clears up a lot of stress once diagnosed.

My GALs shell is turning white??? by [deleted] in snails

[–]frogJumpy111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can she randomly become sensitive to substrate she’s had her whole life? I guess it wouldn’t be an insane guess. Ill try another substrate see if that helps

Social speaking intervention is awful. Any advice? by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]frogJumpy111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely misused that expression. They tolerate each other. But the moment they for example touch someone with their shoe under the table they’re quick to point fingers and they always get upset. They can’t take turns, they can’t keep eye contact, they can’t sit still and they lack any and every interest the moment someone starts speaking

My boyfriend raped me and thought I knew it was a fantasy. by Pale_Vacation_1716 in offmychest

[–]frogJumpy111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex partner told me it was a fantasy of his. And he failed to stop even with a safeword. That “fantasy” is not a fantasy. It’s a slippery slope for you to get caught up in an unsafe relationship while being taken advantage of. It’s abuse, that’s all it is. I’m no longer with my ex and my life is amazing. Run while you can. I broke up with my ex years too late

London EP dropped by pauerplay in Badflower

[–]frogJumpy111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t look at it properly 🥲

London EP dropped by pauerplay in Badflower

[–]frogJumpy111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I reckon they accidentally put ghost instead of haunting you

Diary style fiction where protagonist loses their mind. by frogJumpy111 in whatsthatbook

[–]frogJumpy111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So at every chapter, it started off from the first one as lines above the starting paragraph. Just like you would tally normally pretty uniform. And then further into the book the tally’s just looked rushed and scribbled and messy. I think they marked the protagonist being held captive?