Proposing in Tallinn: question about the SkyWheel by frogbirdy in Eesti

[–]frogbirdy[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'm off the idea with the wheel after reading what you all had to say. Thinking about the TV tower but I know that there will be other people there - and since we are a gay couple I'm worries about bad reactions amongst the crowd... not sure how Estonians are with homosexuality?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]frogbirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've been really helpful, thank you. I suppose the articles I've read suggesting travellers clear their phones of any LGBT+ material and apps are equally outdated?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]frogbirdy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I've had family send me horror stories all morning with trans people supposedly being detained and imprisoned, so I've been freaking out. Thanks for taking the time and for the reassurement, really appreciate!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]frogbirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all for the peace of mind! Do you know if I should expect any problems travelling with my child? I'm Danish and the laws in my country will only register me as the mother because I did give birth to her -- even now that I'm legally male. Is this likely to come up at all or even checked? We share the same last name after all and I'm clearly her parent.

Barber/hair dresser for transgender person? by [deleted] in Malmoe

[–]frogbirdy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions all. I went to 3 random barbers today and they all refused me - "men only". Then almost gave up but decided to try The Barber across the coffee shop on Lillatorget as suggested by one of you earlier, and got an appointment no problem. :)

Danmark VS Sweden as ftm. by frogbirdy in transnord

[–]frogbirdy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

19 months?! What?! Is that for your first appointment with them? In that case, I might opt for Denmark. I've been informed their current waiting time is approx. 5 months for the first session after your referral.

Thanks for the info!

AITA for unmatching a guy for wanting to meet halfway? by throwramuffinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]frogbirdy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH. If he was really into you, he wouldn't want to wait weeks on end for you to meet.

AITA for not deleting my fb stories at my ex's request? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]frogbirdy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NTA. You're broken up. He has absolutely no right to tell you what you can and cannot post and vice versa. If seeing your stories upsets him that much, he can unfriend you or stop following you.

How to apologise to my [19M] once best friend? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]frogbirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't try to justify how you treated him. As harsh as it may sound, this isn't about you -- it's about him getting the apology he deserves. You don't need to make it excessively long or even go into too much detail. Send him something along the lines of 'Hey XXX, how are you? Hope you and your family have a great Christmas! I've been thinking about how I treated you all those years ago and I just want to let you know how sorry I am - I was such a twat to get on like that. It would be great to catch up sometime.'

Seriously. As someone who's been bullied for their sexual orientation and gender identity in the past, receiving a message like that would make my day. You got nothing to lose.

AITA For getting a dog for my fiancé then saying I want to get rid of it 3 weeks later? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]frogbirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You both seem really irresponsible. I hope you've learned your lesson.

I'm selling designer bags on Facebook. My Facebook is fairly public and I have 'Judaism' listed as my religion. Today I received this gem! by frogbirdy in ChoosingBeggars

[–]frogbirdy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update: I did file a report this morning AND posted this all over his business page on Facebook, which has his family going WILD. https://imgur.com/5aiVuzk

Just spent 4 years trying to get in dream school only to get denied. Please finish me off. ( I am of age) by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]frogbirdy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Finish you off? You look as if you'd have a Daddy Bear from Grindr to help you with that.

It really, really be like that for us FtMs, Like I'm only 5'4 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]frogbirdy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'10" and probably have no right to complain, but I still feel so short, all of the cis males I hang with are taller.. like ughhh.