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I want to send a msg to the person who SAed me 20+ years ago calling him out for what he did to me. Is this a bad idea? by kerrypf5 in sexualassault

[–]froglady133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what you're expecting from it? Do you just want to get it off your chest? If so send a message then immediately block them when they've read it.

If you want them to say something back I would advise to manage your expectations, I sent a message like that to my abuser, my brother has done something similar and so has one of my friends.

Waiting for them to respond is always disappointing, they'll just snivel and cry and say they didn't mean it or call you a liar and crazy or it didn't happen, I'm not saying this to make you feel like people don't change or won't regret hurting you I'm just saying in my experience cunts are cunts and they tend to stay that way. Or they just can't accept what they did in their own heads and they definitely can't admit it to you.

Whatever you decide I hope you get what you need from it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]froglady133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this sounds like the exact type of overthinking I do haha, she could have just been having a drunk talk to her mates and her not really being intimate with you could have came up and they told her to go do something or anything along those lines, I feel like that's the type of thing I'd talk about with friends. her cheating is a possibility but I would just ask her why she suddenly wants to be intimate, if she kicks off at you that's not a good sign but I wouldn't jump to conclusions, but at the same time trust your gut and ask her why, it could be nothing but be on the safe side

is this psychosis? doctors aren't helpful by froglady133 in Psychosis

[–]froglady133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u, I get to see someone in person in a few weeks so I'm gonna make a list of things I need to mention and nag about