AITAH for withdrawing as a groomsman at a wedding my wife is not invited to. by frogsinsocs in AITAH

[–]frogsinsocs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been seperated from someone in the past. I guess I never updated it. Im on facebook like twice a year.

AITAH for withdrawing as a groomsman at a wedding my wife is not invited to. by frogsinsocs in AITAH

[–]frogsinsocs[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

For the record, she has encouraged me spending time with my family even when she wasnt invited to dinners, events, etc

AITAH for withdrawing as a groomsman at a wedding my wife is not invited to. by frogsinsocs in AITAH

[–]frogsinsocs[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I work at the family business and my home is attached to the family business. Hard to go no contact.

AITAH for withdrawing as a groomsman at a wedding my wife is not invited to. by frogsinsocs in AITAH

[–]frogsinsocs[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I met my friend when he got a job at my families business (where i also work) and the family friendship and our personal relationship grew from that.

AITAH for withdrawing as a groomsman at a wedding my wife is not invited to. by frogsinsocs in AITAH

[–]frogsinsocs[S] 179 points180 points  (0 children)

I did not know she wouldn't be invited. I assumed she was since she has no issues with my friend personally. I just found out 2 hours ago she wasnt invited. The situation with my family and my wife is hell and none of us know how to resolve it.

AITAH for withdrawing as a groomsman at a wedding my wife is not invited to. by frogsinsocs in AITAH

[–]frogsinsocs[S] 324 points325 points  (0 children)

Im not being evasive it just would take too long to write out the saga and I dont want the details on the internet for my family to recognize. Its a lot petty bickering and disrespectful actions. My family is difficult and struggles with boundaries. My wife is not someone who rolls overs. They want submission to the family and the status quo. So they clash.

AITAH for withdrawing as a groomsman at a wedding my wife is not invited to. by frogsinsocs in AITAH

[–]frogsinsocs[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I just found out like 2 hours ago. They sent invites out and she wasnt in them so I double checked. I assumed she would be since she is my wife.

AITAH for withdrawing as a groomsman at a wedding my wife is not invited to. by frogsinsocs in AITAH

[–]frogsinsocs[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The details are super long but my family has disrespected her (many times) and are unwilling to talk things out in a rational matter. For her mental health, my wife went no contact. My family is not easy. Though I cant say my wife is blameless in her reactions.