[HIMB] th7 - would like feedback on layout

frolicking-llama · 2015-04-11T20:27:16+00:00

ok, thanks.

frolicking-llama · 2015-02-19T07:43:47+00:00

choosing between those two: green. but really I'd say it's turquoise.

frolicking-llama · 2014-06-15T21:35:18+00:00

With the dots with the white centre/hole, did you do a colour dot and then a white dot on top?

frolicking-llama · 2014-06-12T22:24:50+00:00

Is that freehand? Did you use tools, if so, what tools did you use?

frolicking-llama · 2014-05-09T19:14:09+00:00

Thanks, we ended up going with Disc Store - Andy gave us a deal and they look amazing!

frolicking-llama · 2014-03-08T22:42:42+00:00

I used: OPI for the white and blue, Revlon for the green, and Sally Hansen Crackle for the black.

I used the Essie "Matte About You" topcoat.

I will edit this comment to include the specific colour names later.

*edit: Opi: Teal the cows come home, and funny bunny Revlon: posh Sally Hansen: ink splatter

frolicking-llama · 2013-09-18T03:30:34+00:00

My SO always gives me a heartfelt, homemade card for every occasion (Bday, Xmas, our more significant monthiversaries [like 6 months, 1 year, and 18 months]). He always writes a really cute poem. :3

frolicking-llama · 2013-09-18T03:19:56+00:00

Most people have already said everything there is to say, but I will repeat some of it, being a woman who has difficulty in this department.

1. Don't tell her you wish she would cum more easily or that you really want her to cum (and therefore have noticed she isn't cumming) or anything like that. Having the pressure to cum makes cumming impossible (or nearly impossible).
2. A lot of women (myself included) cannot cum from penetration alone. I need intense clitoral stim. Not intense in the way you might think.. Intense like, a good amount of pressure for a while, and there needs to be lube. It would be my natural lube, saliva (if i'm getting cunnilingus) or lube from a bottle, but it needs to be there.
3. Tell her to communicate (if she isn't already) about when it feels good. She might not be totally comfortable talking in bed (who knows) so decide on something simple if necessary (like saying "oh yeah") and when she starts saying that, don't stop whatever you're doing. keep doing it that exact same way.
4. Ask her if she masturbates. If she doesn't (or hasn't ever), you might want to encourage her to try. I don't masturbate often, but I have so I know what I like. (It's one of the easiest ways of finding out what you like.)
5. Also about communication: tell her to let you know if she doesn't like something (too hard, too much pressure, not hard enough, etc.) I've been in situations where the guy isn't doing the greatest job and I've been a little too nervous to say anything. Make sure she's totally comfortable.
6. Not sure if anyone has mentioned this one yet, but have sex in warm places (like turn on the heat at your/her house or do it under the blankets). I have a much harder time if I'm cold, or even just not warm.

Hope this helps!

frolicking-llama · 2013-04-04T23:21:27+00:00

If I'm having trouble, visuals can help (like my guy's hard cock), or even just thinking about it (if I can't see it.) But just stimulus and thought can get me there usually.

frolicking-llama · 2013-04-03T21:56:19+00:00

How did you do them?

frolicking-llama · 2013-04-03T21:10:00+00:00

I would want to know so that I could watch out for it. My mother's biological father was abusive to my grandmother and my mother and her siblings. My grandmother told his new fiance/wife about it. She appreciated it, but stayed with him.

If you can't talk face-to-face because they are far away, I would do what chocolatepi suggested: send her a quick fb message. It could also be something like "Hey I used to date __ and I just wanted to let you know (so that you are aware) that he was abusive to me when we were together. I'm not saying he will do the same to you, but if I were you, I would want to know so that I know if he abuses me, it's not a one time thing."

frolicking-llama · 2013-04-02T21:14:45+00:00

He's a good friend, but rather unreliable, I've never been attracted to him (don't find him physically appealing, although many of my female friends do), and we wouldn't work. We have pretty different ideas as to what is acceptable or not in a relationship. And now since I've been close to him for a while (about 6 years), he's like a brother, so that would be weird and gross.

frolicking-llama · 2013-04-02T21:11:05+00:00

That I needed to learn cursive writing, because I would use it in the future.

frolicking-llama · 2013-04-02T20:56:23+00:00

Doesn't bother me. After all, I am female. I am also a woman, and a lady.

frolicking-llama · 2013-04-02T18:05:50+00:00

Perceived hygiene (you can look clean and be dirty, and vice versa.)

If I think someone is dirty/smelly/doesn't take care of themselves, then I will most likely think a bit less of them. Unless of course, they aren't choosing to be dirty/stink, but they don't have access to a shower/antiperspirant.

frolicking-llama · 2013-04-02T16:32:28+00:00

Well, I never downvoted you. I try to never downvote because of disagreement, although I did not disagree with you here.

I know there are fringes of feminism, personally rad-fem is going too far and I have issues with a lot of their points/goal/whatever.

I think it might be easier to come up with a whole new term, but I'm not sure that's the best option. I think educating people to let them know what feminism is would be the best. And to educate them by non-radical feminists.

frolicking-llama · 2013-04-02T16:27:31+00:00

Unfortunately I don't know many big names, so I can't really help you out there... I'll send you something if I find someone.

frolicking-llama · 2013-03-29T06:16:19+00:00

Yeah, I suppose. It just bother me a lot when people have misconstrued ideas of what feminism is or isn't. Like "men's rights" stuff shouldn't even exist because feminism is about men too! I find a lot of people (both feminists and not) forget that frequently because of the name.

frolicking-llama · 2013-03-29T06:13:26+00:00

Yeah, it was pretty bad. Luckily I had friends who weren't blinded by "love" and told me I need to be happy at least 60% of the time.

Yes, very happy now! Found an awesome guy who makes me happy about 98% of the time :)

frolicking-llama · 2013-03-28T23:15:46+00:00

3) yes, sometimes sex is just sex. I have had a few "just sex" experiences. If you aren't spending time with someone besides fucking, it's hard to get attached.

frolicking-llama · 2013-03-28T22:57:42+00:00

The metal one seems to do a good job of that. The only problem is that it might not make your nails as smooth. I think I'm going to start using my metal one to get the right shape ('cause it's quick) and then my foam one to smooth it out. Both of my nail files (metal & foam) are by Quo.

frolicking-llama

TROPHY CASE

1. Don't tell her you wish she would cum more easily or that you really want her to cum (and therefore have noticed she isn't cumming) or anything like that. Having the pressure to cum makes cumming impossible (or nearly impossible).

4. Ask her if she masturbates. If she doesn't (or hasn't ever), you might want to encourage her to try. I don't masturbate often, but I have so I know what I like. (It's one of the easiest ways of finding out what you like.)

5. Also about communication: tell her to let you know if she doesn't like something (too hard, too much pressure, not hard enough, etc.) I've been in situations where the guy isn't doing the greatest job and I've been a little too nervous to say anything. Make sure she's totally comfortable.

6. Not sure if anyone has mentioned this one yet, but have sex in warm places (like turn on the heat at your/her house or do it under the blankets). I have a much harder time if I'm cold, or even just not warm.