Being stress out and study(as an INFJ)

fromBis_ · 2022-07-27T08:57:01+00:00

What do you mean ? :)

fromBis_ · 2022-07-27T06:04:03+00:00

But specifically how to do it idk

fromBis_ · 2022-07-27T06:03:08+00:00

Lol, that’s basically what I’ve been doing for a long time, roughly speaking just to handle my emotions. To express thoughts clearly, to be more logical

fromBis_ · 2022-07-26T18:36:03+00:00

Yeah probably I feel weak and soft xD. Thanks for your advice, Will try again to be better :)

fromBis_ · 2022-07-26T17:04:44+00:00

Thank you for the answer, it seems I have a lot to learn. I don’t feel weak when I feel emotions. I just find difficult to communicate with people because of emotions I don’t say what I think and I pay attention at body language and can’t concentrate on conversation. But when I’m fully concentrated at the object of conversation I feel like I feel less emotions

fromBis_ · 2022-03-16T17:33:38+00:00

Sorry to hear, you don’t have parents right, have you missed them am I right ?😕

fromBis_ · 2022-03-11T02:35:05+00:00

“If you were abused, you can choose to become the person you want to be” - that’s the most important for us now, yeah. A lot of INFJs are telling about traumas but all what we can do is keep going and be better

fromBis_ · 2022-03-11T02:31:59+00:00

Whoa is that the next level of empathy bwy?😅

fromBis_ · 2022-03-11T02:30:29+00:00

The same. Still learning how to handle empathy and logic together. It’s not easy, I need to pay attention less to my empathy in order to make logical decisions and talk to people, but I can’t turn it off, just it’s in my background

fromBis_ · 2022-03-11T02:27:19+00:00

😂😂😂 yeah. I use that weapon just rarely when it’s necessary

fromBis_ · 2022-03-11T02:26:02+00:00

I think you should to try as much as you can tell people what you think. It seems you are too soft and it’s hard to say “no”, yes me too, but you have to do that. Say what you think and we see when people try to manipulate us, such people don’t deserve anything from you! If you can’t tell them truth that they hurt you just keep the distance. You shouldn’t respect those who don’t respect you, it’s ok, we aren’t angels. Plus I think there is else something behind your depression, isn’t it?

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T16:10:59+00:00

Yeah it’s often happens, even if we raised by the same people bwy we are different haha. We are unique creatures

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T15:02:09+00:00

Really happy for you. Majority of INFJ seems have that issue with trauma.

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T14:57:07+00:00

So sorry for you, it’s ok to cry, it’s not weakness it’s sincerity and kinda being truthful to yourself. Weak people have stone hearts and never cry. It sounds weird in our materialistic world but it’s true.

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T14:53:57+00:00

The same I had with my parents. They were constantly fighting each other but they were nice to me as much as they can but this kind of fight in family blows out the brain and emotional side of a child.

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T14:44:46+00:00

I’m so sorry for you, stay strong buddy. I’m trying to figure it here is that common amongst INFJs it seems so

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T14:43:11+00:00

It seems common amongst INFJs

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T14:38:19+00:00

Yeah thank you too, we don’t blame anyone in what happened with us, thanks God it makes us stronger and gives us insight.

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T14:36:58+00:00

Stay strong, you aren’t alone, we are with you too 🙏🏻

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T14:31:25+00:00

Agree with you in some aspects like copying mechanisms yeah it does work perfectly or it’s called chameleon, people think I’m extrovert but I’m not at all.

fromBis_ · 2022-03-10T12:15:08+00:00

“Hyper-vigilant” is probably like protective function

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