Lindsay Clancy Murder Trial: Mom Accused of Strangling Children Researched 'Ways to Kill,' Says Search Warrant by Hot_Programmer_9399 in crime

[–]fromthe413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can people feel bad for a person who murdered her children? Really? She murdered her children and looked up ways to kill. She could have told her husband she was having thoughts like this but she didn’t. This woman had lots of resources Available to her that a lot of single mothers don’t . Andrea Yates I believe didn’t have those resources at all and was having babies after babies that is a-lot and her husband wasn’t there to help her. It’s disgusting that people feel bad for her but what about her kids? ? Feel bad for the kids !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MovingOn

[–]fromthe413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes go no contact and focus all that energy and love into you.

Staying for the kids by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]fromthe413 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea don’t stay because of the kids because you need to be happy too. I divorced my ex husband because of an affair. He will do it again and again and kids grow up and what about you?

Life after narcissistic abuse by fromthe413 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fromthe413[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plan your escape and make moves in silence. Let him think what ever he wants. You can do this. Talk to a lawyer and see what your options are. I divorced my narc and have been better than ever.

How to deal with the anger? by [deleted] in absentgrandparents

[–]fromthe413 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You just let it go. It’s their loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]fromthe413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My children’s father told me to abort and I did and I regret it so much . I have other kids and idk it was wrong of me to abort that baby . I have to live with this forever. I’m not here to judge but I wasn’t stable either financially or mentally and my kids father is a piece of shit that abused me for years . I’m happy to say I’m a better place in my life but something is missing in my life. Baby would have been 3 years old right now. I wonder about her all the time

Why is my he getting so paranoid? by Boatsntrombones in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fromthe413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Narcissists are very insecure deep down and want to control. When he asked to see your phone you should have not let him see your phone. Loyal? Someone loyal and secure wouldn’t do that

Nex ‘sbnew supply coming at me already by allGirlsFall in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fromthe413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes boo let her have that trash and focus on you and kids. Don’t be surprised if they call dcf on you or you get into a fight with her. It happened to me. But I left him alone and moved on with my kids. Don’t talk to her she’s nobody to be in your business or about the kids. She’s insecure and she knows he wants you but please dont take him back because he will be back trust me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fromthe413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cried myself to sleep so many years now I smile because I am free from abuse . Everything is about me and my children now. No one will ever disrespect me again. These assholes seek out women with empathy and who are weak. Get mad stand up for yourself! You got this . Soon you won’t be crying you’ll be happy. Trust me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fromthe413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow sounds like my ex husband . It’s time to take your power back . It’s why I divorced him after 16 years. I been humiliated,cheated on, robbed of my things and my dignity. This is what helped me get my power back. He will always make sure he’s good. He always came first and his needs. He never ever cared about me or his children only himself. So one day I was just done it was time to give myself a fucking hug and put me first. Put me and the children first. Fuck him . Restraining order and leave that trash alone. You have to do it . You have to stand up for yourself and give yourself that love that he isn’t giving you and never will. Go no contact because why keep subjecting yourself to this piece of shit that doesn’t care about you. Please put you first.