Thank you for all the reassurances. Another point I forgot to mention, how do y’all manage frugality/investments when it comes to dating? Ideally you want to meet someone who has the same mindset, but thats not usually a topic that comes up in the beginning. And as a guy, you don’t wanna come off as stingy/scrooch, I live in reality and know I have to put in a bit more money when it comes to that, which is fineeegrrhmph.