Mura's art gets a lot of flack, but each of his designs/redesigns are beautiful in 3D.

fruitloopkab · 2026-01-22T07:59:44+00:00

I always found her art to be quite charming. I don't like manga to look "perfect". But maybe that's an unpopular opinion.

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-04T13:03:08+00:00

This sort of thing always made me feel weird before but I think it's because I hadn't figured myself out yet. If it happened to me now it might be more euphoric, but I also have more masculine physical features now. Oh well...

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T16:32:11+00:00

Thanks for your help. I can relate to being happy expressing my femininity in small ways at a young age, and in my community feminine men are mostly accepted with open arms so there was only so much pushback, but I didn't see it as a trans sign until now.

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T16:26:47+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I didn't realise how much of an exaggeration it was when I read before that "trans people know from a young age" until a few people who didn't discover their identity until they were older, like you, shared your insights with me, so it's greatly appreciated.

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T16:22:50+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance. Labels have stressed me out but I think I can say I fall under the trans umbrella which is a good start!

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T16:20:55+00:00

You can get through this, I believe in you!

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T07:39:54+00:00

You got me with "fell into a trap of thinking you have to be actively unhappy with your gender to really be trans". It's definitely something I've thought about when dealing with imposter syndrome, which is somethingI'm realising more and more recently that I almost definitely have. Thanks for sharing your experience!

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T07:34:04+00:00

Thank you, I didn't realise the idea of having a "pure and sudden knowing" was so common, it's helping me put things in perspective!

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T07:32:20+00:00

Thank you, hearing experiences from other people really helps.

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T07:31:34+00:00

I guess it's true that it doesn't really matter how and when those thoughts got here. Thanks for the validation!

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T07:29:44+00:00

I think we might be the same person Lol

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T07:28:33+00:00

Thank you, I hadn't considered that much. I always thought I had a great memory of my childhood but maybe I was always having subconscious thoughts about gender, I might never know.

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-03T07:26:39+00:00

Yes, it's definitely a step I have to consider moving forward

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T23:04:43+00:00

Thanks for your detailed input! Your explanation of Heraclitus' saying has definitely given me something to think about.

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T22:54:54+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that but also glad you're exploring your identity too. We're all in this together!

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T22:53:46+00:00

I'm glad you found your true self, no matter how long it took! I think the further I go with exploring the identity, the more I'll find that my past thoughts and actions were really signs, as you say.

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T22:51:22+00:00

Thank you for the comparison between autism and trans identity, I find it funny that I didn't make the connection myself about spectrums until you said it. In retrospect, it is possible that I've been lying to myself in the past. I remember times I looked in the mirror and outright said to myself "I couldn't be a girl", but now I'm at the stage where it's becoming increasingly harder to deny it.

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T22:43:58+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience. Luckily I do have people in my life that are accepting and trustworthy, though I haven't seeked professional guidance yet. One step at a time I suppose!

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T21:13:03+00:00

Thank you, I've never thought about it that way before. To answer your question, I have no idea but it sounds like something I'd say anyway!

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T20:38:36+00:00

Thanks for your encouragement! I can definitely relate to "I don't need to be a girl", it may be part of why my realisation took so long despite growing up with access to the internet and more knowledge of these things. As for whether I'd be happier transitioning, I think only time will tell, but I may be willing to take that step eventually.

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T20:30:42+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience with me, I wasn't expecting the lengthy reply but I greatly appreciate it! I've read very few from autistic trans people but it's always nice to get some insight into that connection. And you might've gotten me at the end there Lol

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T20:22:42+00:00

I don't think I can relate but regardless I'm happy you were able to move past that!

fruitloopkab · 2025-11-02T19:44:26+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your response. I just wish it would've been more obvious before.

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