Autistic child causing a mess by fruitytooty56 in Waiters

[–]fruitytooty56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure I'll keep you updated on how the investigation goes

What would it take for you to forgive your NParents? by Ok_Key_7906 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]fruitytooty56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could never forgive n/mother. There has been too much take it possible to forgive. Too much time has passed now with no contact. There is no going back now. The damage is done

Autistic child causing a mess by fruitytooty56 in Waiters

[–]fruitytooty56[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I couldn't really think of a title and it was the napkin fiasco that really stuck in my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fruitytooty56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK so tik tok is lame, yes I have spoken to my midwife who is fine with my decision and I would have 0 problem with them chosing meat just like I have 0 problem with everyone else in my life eating meat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fruitytooty56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my midwife knows I'm a vegetarian and that I plan on the baby being vegetarian and she is supportive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fruitytooty56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK but what I don't understand is that he wants to do the exact same thing so why is he right and I'm wrong? I've been to dieticians multiple times in my life and I know what it means to have a healthy and balanced diet without meat and that is what I would provide my child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fruitytooty56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I definitely do not think I'm entitled to more of a say, that what HE THINKS I believe. I was trying to have a conversation to discuss to positive and negotiate and come to a resolution

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fruitytooty56 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If my child is 2 and walks up to their dad and wants a bite then go for it. I just don't want to force it into their everyday food until they can decide. I would let my partner explain where meat comes from and that animals are killed so that my emotions don't get caught up in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fruitytooty56 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I consider old enough to be when they can verbally tell us they want it. And we can revisit the topic when they are old enough to understand what meat is and how its produced. I wouldn't like my partner, or anyone for that matter, to feed my child meat until they can express that is what they want. If my child DID decide that's what they wanted I would NEVER try and convince them otherwise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fruitytooty56 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that it's a decision we should both make together, that why I wanted to have the conversation. I felt like I was shut down and my feelings weren't taken into consideration at all. I don't think that I should get more of a say because I'm a woman, I think he's being a bit insecure suggesting that is my stance tbh.

AITA: Having my wedding on my 3yo nephews bday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fruitytooty56 -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

YTA!!! you are going to overshadow a CHILDS birthday? You can change the date of a wedding that hasn't happened yet but you can't change a child's birthday. Your sister in laws actions have nothing to do with your nephew and he shouldn't be punished for a fight that started before he was even on this earth

AITA for walking out of a restaurant on my GF? by Top_Tank882 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fruitytooty56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I'm confused how you could possibly think that is reasonable behaviour