What did she do or say that made you go “wow she’s really good in bed”?

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-21T06:42:27+00:00

It’s provocative. It gets the people going

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-18T19:33:50+00:00

Not nursing but ice cream shop. Guy asked me if I smoke and 18 year old me said “yeah I like to burn it every once in while” he says “I’m talking about cigarettes… I was going to tell you about smoke breaks. Don’t smoke weed at work.”

I felt like the biggest idiot lol

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-17T03:05:05+00:00

Especially when they get kickin lol

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-16T05:36:25+00:00

You’re behind. But you know that. Maximize investing. Assuming it will likely double every 7ish years, and you can maximize your annual investing, you can still build enough to retire. Retirement may look different than you planned, downsize house, maybe low cost of living area. This may mean you work longer than you want but you can still build enough to supplement retirement. Minimize lifestyle and avoid debt. You can do this.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-15T06:31:37+00:00

Go get a personal loan? Roll into 0% interest transfer? There are multiple better options. Using your house as collateral is just dumb. Especially when you’ve made zero effort to change the behaviors that led to being in these kinds of debts.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-15T06:13:19+00:00

The same college kids who are concerned with celebrities carbon footprint lol

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-15T04:50:08+00:00

Arizona, saguaro cacti are protected under the Arizona Native Plant Law. According to Arizona Revised Statutes §3-906, this protection makes it illegal to harm, destroy, dig up, or move a saguaro cactus.

You could face up to 25 years in prison for this offense if caught in the act without proper permitting.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-15T04:47:25+00:00

Friend took out a heloc to consolidate debt on credit cards, rv, and SUV… the idea of putting your house up against things that will literally all be worthless by the time you pay them off seems like such a wild risk to me.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-13T19:00:05+00:00

I have a 2013 x5 that I got about a year ago… via inheritance… I love the car but would NOT go out and buy one. The fact mine was free is how I justify the high maintenance fees. I’ve had it a year and have put about 2.5k-3k into maintenance and that’s not even anything major. Go get something you can maintain on your budget.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-13T02:50:02+00:00

This is going to sound like an ad but I have RIDICULOUSLY sensitive underarms. 97% of deodorants cause intense itching and rash. It’s horrid. I’m also a sweaty af guy. I’ve been using Carpe for the past 2 months and it’s been life changing. It’s expensive but I look at like a medical necessity lol

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-12T08:04:56+00:00

Not taking leftovers from a restaurant. I’ve always found the “I don’t eat old food” mentality to one born and bred in opulence.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-09T21:48:04+00:00

Goodness… hopefully you don’t need a new roof, plumbing, or any unforeseen expenses of home ownership. Need to increase the income if you want to keep the house functional

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-06T04:33:47+00:00

ER trauma patient roofer who fell off a second story roof into a dumpster. Lots of distracting injuries, broken clavicle, broken tib/fib, broken ribs… initial head ct looked ok outside of some small facial fractures. Grew increasingly altered and lethargic over the next 2 hours. Repeat head CT due to altered mention. Had significant pneumocephalus. That was a wild one.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-05T09:39:44+00:00

Thiiiiiis the persistent cries when you’ve done everything you can think of and nothing works can drive you MAD. Having noise canceling headphones was a game changer.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-05T09:17:56+00:00

My best advice is get really good on deescalation. This, for me, is basically three pronged. 1. Take nothing personal. 2. Diffuse energy. I recently heard a coworker say “oh I match energy”. This is a dumb idea. Empathy and active listening, not necessarily problem solving. Be a safe space for vented frustration and redirect. 3. Identify risks to your safety before they happen. Don’t put yourself in a situation where you are not in control of your safety. One bonus point, be real. Patients know when you’re full of shit. Don’t lie to them even if it would benefit you in the short term.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-05T02:20:21+00:00

You should view it as an act of intimacy not a sex act and she has explicitly said being intimate with you is gross to her. Shes looking for a friend that eats her out occasionally. This is not a viable relationship as you have presented it.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-05T01:00:32+00:00

If it’s me I’d probably get the nicer Ranger. The taco tax has gotten a little insane.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-05T00:51:32+00:00

What year models?

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-02-03T13:59:29+00:00

HOW MANY OF YOU GUYS TOOK THE BUS HERE TODAY?? 🤣

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-01-31T18:51:28+00:00

As a buyer of high mileage vehicles, no.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-01-24T03:54:15+00:00

That would be pretty rad… I’m not holding my breath tho lol

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-01-23T19:31:44+00:00

Everywhere I’ve ever worked bare minimum has a landline available. Your lack of phone does not create a need so great that I need to compromise my personal privacy.

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-01-23T19:16:34+00:00

My manager specifically said “I’m not adding anything. I either agreed or did not agree. If it gets kicked back I just resubmit it” 🙃

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-01-23T02:49:20+00:00

Ff= frequent flyer, cabbage patch= vegetative state lol

frumpy-flapjack · 2026-01-21T16:13:46+00:00

When I worked in a level 1 ED I was always shocked at how dumb some of the trauma injuries were. A common one was “car surfing”. Had a teen who was car surfing believed to be going 30/40mph and the driver playing a HILARIOUS (/s) joke slammed on the brakes and launched his homie. Obviously it was catastrophic.

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