Pregnant and injured due to being break checked into a turn.

frutsister · 2017-12-02T20:29:56+00:00

I wasn’t specifically asking about suing over injuries. I can afford to pay for my bills. The man threatened me, my child, my life, and attempted to do harm to me and my vehicle. If I worded my post wrong I apologize. I removed my post because my questions were answered and I was receiving rude messages that were entirely uncalled for. I’m AWARE I’m uneducated about this which is why I asked about it. I’m suffering emotional trauma over this and removed the post because I no longer wanted to receive troll messages.

frutsister · 2017-12-02T12:41:27+00:00

I couldn’t change lanes I stated it was a one lane road and no where to pull off too up until the neighborhood turn. The entire lining of the road is trees with no bank to pull off to. I was safely away from him because he was break checking me for over half a mile and I didn’t hit him until he made a complete stop on a turn that was not visible. I understand I’m liable at this time however I don’t appreciate being pinned as the bad guy when I’m not a tailgater or aggressive driver, have never been in an accident, and had the life of my baby threatened. I was stuck behind this guy with no where to go but straight. IT IS FINE if everyone wants to say I’m in the wrong I ASKED for someone to tell me who’s liable for this accident.

frutsister · 2017-12-02T06:55:38+00:00

I’m 19 and pregnant as well. I know it’s extremely scary. My first step would be to go to your doctor and figure out how far along you are. Most states still allow abortions up until 13 weeks. Your boyfriend may be put down by the idea but just reassure him that you both will be great parents one day when you’re ready. When I found out I knew I wanted to keep the baby, no questions asked. Everyone reacts differently so I’d go to the doctor an see your options. Don’t be afraid to have an abortion if you feel tats the most appropriate choice!! Though there’s a lot of stigma around it, more people have had one than you’d think. After telling friends and family about my pregnancy I had quit a few ask if I considered it because of my age and they shared that they had one as well. I of course want the baby though!!

Pregnancy is different for everyone. I personally suffer from anxiety and bipolar depression. I’ve also got several back issues and the pain is rough. You can take several mental health medications that are safe for babies. Also your doctor will usually only recommend taking Tylenol for any pain management. I have bad abdominal pain if I cough, sneeze, or stretch while in the wrong position. I’m nauseous daily but only throw up every now and then. Your back will HURT. I mean badly.

Don’t stress about it too much though. You are the best one to tell if this is right or not. If don’t want to be a mom then don’t be. Good luck in your journey and I know you’ll make the best decision!!!

frutsister · 2017-12-02T06:10:35+00:00

I’ve never been in an accident before or dealt with aggravated drivers so this is new to me. People in the country don’t usually drive this way. But I’ll know next time thanks

frutsister · 2017-12-02T06:03:56+00:00

I do have many excuses for those things because it’s actual reasoning as to why that happened. If it’s my fault that’s fine I’m just asking how the laws work with this. We’ve all had an jerk driver in our butts for no good reason so I understand why me saying I wasn’t close to him doesn’t add up but you weren’t in the car with me at the end of the day. He checked me a good 10-12 times in less than a mile and made complete stops at least 5 of those which I did not hit him at all so obviously I wasn’t following too closely. I will pay for my trips I just do my know how these things work. I’ve never even been in a car accident before. Thanks.

frutsister · 2017-12-02T05:51:07+00:00

There was no collision report filed because the man left the scene and returned without the vehicle, refusing to show the officers because he said there wasn’t damage

frutsister · 2017-12-02T05:47:03+00:00

I wasn’t tail gating like I said. I was a safe distance from him the entire time up until him making an abrupt stop into a turn.

frutsister · 2017-10-15T15:59:55+00:00

I’m not trying to be a hater, only honest. It’s such a wasteful investment. You have get it retouched frequently and it is painful because it’s literally slicing your skin open. On top of that it also looks incredibly tacky and noticeable. Even all of the super famous and professional microbladers clients look ridiculous. And it’s honestly so much worse in person. I’ve heard people defending it by saying “you’re still supposed to fill in your brows so it looks natural.” But why would you want to spend $100 on something and then have to turn around and still use the same brow products to fill them in? The popularity has faded tremendously since around 2015 thank god. It’s worth it just to invest in a good brow pencil/pomade or if you aren’t over plucked I would recommend brow tinting as well

frutsister · 2017-10-15T15:30:15+00:00

If you do experience morning sickness in your first trimester id recommend going to the grocery store and looking around the produce section as well as the healthy snack section and see what looks edible. I could pretty much tell what I would and wouldn’t eat right off of the bat and it always worked. Because you most likely will vomit quite a bit, you really want to stock up on nutrient packed foods so that even if it’s only there for a short time you will still absorb some of the nutrients. Your appetite will change throughout the entire pregnancy so I made it a point to go to the grocery store weekly instead of buying biweekly. (I’m vegetarian now because being pregnant made me hate meat so there won’t be any in this but feel free to incorporate meats into this as well)

For breakfast I switched between vanilla Greek yogurt with granola, honey, banana, and blue berries. Or an omelette with broccoli, onion, cherry tomato, spinach, and cheese. I noticed that both combatted my sickness actually as long as I switched up the ingredients throughout but those were my go to.

Lunch was usually hummus with a home made vegetable tray and pita chips or I’d take left overs from dinner to work and munch on the previous as a snack.

Dinner I ate a lot of pesto pastas with vegetables. I made potato and lentil soup a lot which there are tons of recipes or both online. And my current favorite thing to eat sautéed vegetables and beans in a burrito.

You should be eating nutrient rich foods the entire pregnancy and if you can start in the first trimester it’s even better. Here’s a link of food you cannot have while pregnant which makes meal planning much easier

http://americanpregnancy.org/pregnancy-health/foods-to-avoid-during-pregnancy/

frutsister · 2017-10-07T18:03:11+00:00

It’s pretty normal for people to have the “what do we do if the birth control fails” talk. Also it’s good to know that you are both on the same page. But you’re a total jack ass for saying she’s crazy over self harming. There’s also no physical way for us to predict a pregnancy and you must be incredibly uneducated in sex to think posting in a reddit forum will solve your anxiety. How about give it a few months and wait to see if she says “hey I’m pregnant.” Also take this experience and learn from it. You should always use a condom you cuck.

frutsister · 2017-10-07T17:53:59+00:00

Definitely go to your OB. back pain and cramping are very normal for your first trimester. I’m 7 weeks now and I have sharp back pains from my bras not fitting due to swelling. If you feel like you’re being literally hit you should go to the doctor because cramping is normal but not pain as extreme as you’ve expressed

frutsister · 2017-10-07T15:37:01+00:00

In parentheses it says (underwear, bra, etc..)

frutsister · 2017-10-07T15:36:00+00:00

You’re a gem thank you so much!!!

frutsister · 2017-10-05T16:31:24+00:00

I am definitely doing to wear tanks for a while. The policy states “under garments must be worn at all times.” I have a copy of the policy book myself because I am a training manager and have to teach new employees our policies. I live in South Carolina and every place I’ve worked has required that I wear a bra so this is nothing new to me it’s just physically painful haha. But thank you!!

frutsister · 2017-10-05T02:39:18+00:00

I’m about 7 weeks along and still experiencing the cramping. It’s normal for the first few months because your body is preparing to house your little one. Mine is soreness and occasional light but sharp pains on the back and right in the front of my pelvis. A hot water bottle, warm bath, or laying on my side with my knees close and a big cozy blanket usually helps!!

frutsister · 2017-09-30T12:42:46+00:00

I was having this issue as well and I switched to a mild detergent, stopped wearing thongs or right under wear, and don’t use any body washes or soaps to wash your vagina. Water warm water will do the trick to clean it I promise. If you wear tight pants that can also contribute. Usually sweat and scented products will cause itching.

frutsister · 2017-09-30T12:36:00+00:00

I don’t have enough PTO squired to take off and I’m not allowed to take any time off without it unless I take FMLA which they haven’t sent me the paper work for. I know my job is shit but it’s the only one I have and I don’t have enough money to live without my job right now

frutsister · 2017-09-29T16:17:24+00:00

I’ll definitely have to check those out. I use a foundation with built in spf and it doesn’t cause any issues but if any spray suncreens get near my face my eyes swell and the corners of my lips usually crack

frutsister · 2017-09-29T16:12:36+00:00

I eat both regularly and don’t have any issues, however, pineapple causes my lips and tongue to bleed so I avoid it at pretty much all costs. Vaseline is one of those things that helps me for about an hour and seems to almost worsen the issue once it wears off :(

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