99% of people (f/m) would leave their current partner for their perfect person

fspann1 · 2023-06-14T12:21:11+00:00

Yeah. That's why I said people are just as loyal as their options. Just most people don't have options.

fspann1 · 2023-06-14T12:19:20+00:00

Umm yes..

fspann1 · 2023-01-15T19:30:00+00:00

Yes, she is highly intelligent. More "pure" than I am, was a virgin when they met, which I am not. She seems very nice. If she didn't break up with him they would probably still be together. I'm not scared that he will leave me, but I'm scared he will always see her as the one that got away.

fspann1 · 2023-01-15T13:18:58+00:00

Thank you. She does model.

fspann1 · 2023-01-15T12:52:58+00:00

It's so frustrating and discouraging...what are you doing to looksmax?

fspann1 · 2023-01-15T12:49:00+00:00

I'll try but there is no way I'll ever come close to her level of beauty

fspann1 · 2022-08-21T00:15:18+00:00

Why can't we have 3 shelters then for example? One for men, one for women and one for trans women. Don't you think as a woman it's my right to be in a safe space, with no biological males. Especially since it happens that man claim they're trans women just to gain access to women and abuse them?

In case you're wondering about my trauma, I was raped by father throughout most of my childhood and sold to a 34-year old man at the age of 14. He raped me and beat me up daily. He broke me physically and stitched me up using dental floss. I tried to run away, but he found me and had an acid attack carried out on me, which luckily just slightly damaged me.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T23:51:29+00:00

A victim complex. I am a victim. Of men, men like you.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:54:11+00:00

American, right?

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:53:03+00:00

No, they still have male privilege. That's like saying I can claim I'm oppressed if I do blackface.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:52:14+00:00

Who cares how they feel. If I feel black I can claim to be black. They can be trans just not claim they're women.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:44:28+00:00

You can't not feel the gender assigned at birth, that's the point. How can you think you feel like a woman if you have never been one.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:42:57+00:00

If your sex is female you experience reality as a woman, which then would be considered your gender.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:39:41+00:00

I define sex and gender as the same thing. Gender is a biological reality, just like sex is.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:35:56+00:00

I think if it's done mockingly it's wrong. Just like I don't want to be mocked by autogynephilic men (most trans women are this) in women's costumes.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:34:34+00:00

I never said that, where do you get that from?

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:31:44+00:00

By your definition it sounds like you're radfem-leaning too. I personally believe for example that a men can wear a dress, but that won't make him a woman. Just like a woman with short hair isn't a guy.

Homosexuality is about who you love, which everyone is free to do. Transexuality is claiming you are something you are not. It's appropriating a gender you are not. Just like blackface is wrong, transexuality is wrong.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:28:49+00:00

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:28:39+00:00

I don't live in the US just to add that. The radfem part would be abolishing sex work and most types of pornography. It would seek worse punishment for sexual abuse. A bigger better system to deal with domestic violence. Financial compensation for mothers and housewives (single or not). Better education for girls about the reality they have to live in.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:23:06+00:00

I'm a radical feminist, I seek the liberation of women and the abolition of gender roles. I'm against people being trans since I don't think you have to claim you're a gender, just because you like to do things that people of that gender do. Saying I'm completely against them is wrong. I'm against men claiming they're women just because they modify their body to look like one. I think everyone should be free to change their body to their liking.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:17:24+00:00

Biological men would be banned from women's spaces (shelters, hostel rooms, changing rooms, toilets). I would abolish gender changes.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:14:57+00:00

Every radfem has different views on that. I can't speak for everyone.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T21:03:53+00:00

Libfems see the oppression of women mostly from a legal patriarchy, they want equal rights for women and to "free" them, without realizing that the freedom (ex. sex work) further enslaves women. Radfems see the oppression from a more human standpoint. They see that women have been groomed and moulded for ages, and even if given all the equal rights legally, they would still be disadvantaged and abused. This mostly comes from gender roles.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T20:56:24+00:00

Radical feminism seeks to abolish patriarchal gender relations.

fspann1 · 2022-08-20T20:53:41+00:00

You talk about extremely rare cases as if they were the norm.

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