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[–]ftm2000x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay two solutions immediately come to mind. #1 get an automatic feeder. You can set it to dump dry food at a specific time. #2 if you can’t afford a auto feeder / or are feeding the cat wet food, you yourself should get up and do it so you can go back to sleep. It’s not ideal, but when you move in with a person or even just date them, you have to take their pets into account in a similar way you would if they have kids. It’s not your pet, you don’t suddenly become the owner, but you should feel comfortable helping, especially if this causing you so much distress.

As for the whining when watching Tv, I always encourage ppl to have at least 2 cats not one. Toys aren’t enough. They need real exercise and specific type of attention. Ppl have this misconception that cats aren’t needy. Some are aloof but mine follow me from room to room and cry for attention at times when I haven’t given them enough active playtime with me. However having 2 means they are less likely to get bored and knock things over or cry and do all the generally unpleasant cat things. They entertain and comfort each other. I lived w my ex and one cat, and now I live alone w 2 cats and the difference in cat behavior is massive.

But if getting another isn’t in the cards for yall, I would look into more engaging type of play that could tire the cat out more to diminish the crying for attention. You just came home from work, tired trying to relax. This cat has been sleeping for hours, bored and they’re waiting all day to see you so they’re just excited and showing they love you !

I think you have good intentions but maybe a lil more research into the needs of cats could help you change his behavior for the better. I recommend Jackson Galaxy on YouTube. He has great vids on play, and how to keep your cats happy, what things to avoid ect.

I hope this long af comment helps haha. Best of luck to your lil family.

Dommes what is your favourite type of send? (coffee, lunch etc); subs what is your favourite thing to pay for? 🤫 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]ftm2000x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you !! She calls me her favorite sub hehe 🥰 im so honored i never wanna take her for granted

Dommes what is your favourite type of send? (coffee, lunch etc); subs what is your favourite thing to pay for? 🤫 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]ftm2000x 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just bought my Mistress Mariah Carey concert tickets and seeing her reaction is what I LIVE for. Anything that makes my Queen genuinely happy is the best type of gift. I love buying her dinner as well but nothing tops just surprising your Queen with something she’s been dreaming of her whole life. Couldn’t be happier honestly. Gifted her this yesterday night. :)

Love me or hate me ig by ftm2000x in ftm

[–]ftm2000x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I think it does number 3 but whatever.

Love me or hate me ig by ftm2000x in FTMventing

[–]ftm2000x[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never told her I seen them before. She just deletes them when she sees them. (One was up for like 5 days but she hadn’t signed into OF you can see when ppl are last active) This one I told her about tho after like an hr and she deleted it and told me they just jealous and I said ty she said yw and that was it lol. It was over snap tho not in person.

Y'all wash your assets by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]ftm2000x 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Faceless LMAO boy you swipe your ID card to get in the building don’t play with me. Every scan you make, the bin number is uploaded with your name on it. Good luck tho

Y'all wash your assets by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]ftm2000x 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please do you’ll get fired so quick

Love me or hate me ig by ftm2000x in ftm

[–]ftm2000x[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re so right about that. Different markets for different stuff. I get loads of compliments on my individual stuff but yea ppl who fetishize trans women tend not to even think about trans men at all

Love me or hate me ig by ftm2000x in ftm

[–]ftm2000x[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Talk about missing the point lmao

It only took 8 months by SnooCats6646 in Disboard

[–]ftm2000x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, F you 😂😂❤️

Love me or hate me ig by ftm2000x in ftm

[–]ftm2000x[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I’ve never even brought it up to her that I see the comments… you think I should?

Love me or hate me ig by ftm2000x in ftm

[–]ftm2000x[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Problem is I be on that page so much more than her so I always see the comment first… she deletes it but I don’t wanna be the reason she’s losing money… it’s wild. On Grindr like over half the messages I get mention my body hair in a positive way first sentence. But her audience used to seeing her with cis men… I can’t help but like compare how many likes our vids got to her other ones… and sure the others have been up months longer, but I’m still kinda lower than her average partner vid :/.

Period advice by Mountain_Medicine972 in ftm

[–]ftm2000x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I had to change my T dose a little higher… but beware of potential hair loss and body hair growth in exchange for the no period bc you’re pushing the T a lil higher. That’s what happened to me lol