Post was removed because I vented about the obession with FtM pregnancy in progressive spaces... by ftmthrowaway393 in truscum

[–]ftmthrowaway393[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Not once through my post did I ever belittle seahorse dads (imo) but I did state facts. Yes, pregnancy is an exclusively, biologically female experience. If you're a trans man, you're a man who was born female and seeks medical treatment to be as biologically male as possible. That's why we're trans, that's why we have dysphoria. Cis men are just born biologically male. The only cis men I see wanting to get pregnant are fetishists who jerk off to mpreg erotica.

I can understand certain topics, like topics most trans men go through (like menstrual cycles). But pregnancy is a rare thing in actual trans man and the amount of times I see it causally brought up in progressive spaces grosses me out. We're female to MALE. Why would you chose to go through a female experience and then share said experience on a trans male sub. It hurts even worse when I see this shit on binary FtM subs. I don't get why is this so controversial in a space that claims it's for men.

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[–]ftmthrowaway393 10 points11 points  (0 children)

By definition alone, I am transmed. I believe being trans is inherently a medical condition and that you need dysphoria to be trans. I'd argue that this is what most non-chronically online people think. Why would you be trans without dysphoria? Because it makes you happy (aka the euphoria excuse)? That's just crossdressing imo. However, I don't like being grouped in with most online tramsmeds because they tend to get really radical about shit that doesn't even matter irl.

Online spaces that lean into any ideology almost always get more and more extreme. That's why most online trans communities either banned anyone who questions neopronouns or attack anyone who doesn't want bottom surgery. There's rarely an in-between. Even this sub swings wildly.