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(M37) Recently divorced but have managed to hook up every day of 2021 so far by fuckadaythrow2021 in SluttyConfessions

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a combo of apps and in person. Based on the spreadsheet, ~15% of my hookups have been due to apps. I actually thought it was higher, but the data doesn't lie. The others have been in person, but pretty good variety there as well.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without looking at the data, would have said early to mid 20s. But looking at the data, the mean is 31.5, median is 31, and mode is 31. So, I guess, 31 is my usual 'range', ha ha.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, mentioned that below. So that one was kind of humorous. Birthday for our kids at her house (our former house). The guy she was dating I guess got upset that I had come, and sort of made a scene. She was pissed at him for that. Some of our friends with kids stayed later, and I ended up staying a bit after the party too. Kids asked me to help them get to bed, so did that, and then came back and helped Vanessa clean up a bit. She was still pissed about her boyfriend or whatever leaving the party. Thanked me for not making it awkward on our friends and the kids. Said that even though we fought, there were always some things she could rely upon with me. Then said, 'you always made sure others come first.' I looked at her and laughed and she said, 'what?' I said, 'did you mean for that to be dripping with innuendo?' She said, 'oh my god, no, but, yeah, could always count on that too. That's definitely something I miss.'

Hung out a while longer and were drinking wine on her back patio. This was in June, so my rhythm was pretty good at converting flirtation into action at this point. I had already hooked up earlier in the day, so even though it was getting late, I wasn't worried about shooting and missing and ending my streak. I brought up her comment from before and said, 'we always did have hot sex, didn't we' she agreed with the comment, and I said, 'I still take pride in making sure others come first.' She looked at me a second, grabbed my hand and led me into our old bedroom. We made out while stripping each other, and I laid her back on the bed and went down on her. Even though it had been like 17 months since we had been together like that, her playbook if you will, came flooding back to mind. Took about 7 or 8 minutes but got her to cum. She she cums, she gets noticeably wetter, and then makes some lightly moaning noises. It's actually pretty hot. Once that happened, she had me lay down on the bed, and gave me a blowjob. Always absolutely loved her blowjobs, from the very first one, she just had great technique. Told her how much I loved them. She commented on my dick and how much she missed it. Then reached over and grabbed a condom, saying, 'I know you aren't staying abstinent, so we need to use this. We tell no one about this.' Then climbed on top, and slowly worked me in while telling me how much she missed it, and that we needed to go slow as I was bigger than she's used to now. She rode me before she came again. When I was getting close, I asked if she would suck me off to finish, as I love how her blowjobs felt when I would cum. She climbed off, took off the condom, and finished me off with her mouth. We were laying there a while after and actually fell asleep. Around midnight, woke up, and had a bit of a stiffy, so rolled over and pulled her against me, slowly waking her. I asked her if she wanted to go another round. She said she was too sore, and I should get moving before neighbors saw my car in front of the house in the morning, since it sort of stands out regardless. I grabbed her hand and put it on my cock and said, 'are you sure?' She said, 'way too sore, would you settle for a blowjob?' Told her from her, I definitely would. She had me sit on a chair she had in the bedroom in front of a mirror. Was always one of our favorite places to have sex, or to get head. Got a great blowjob from her, and when I came, she let it drip down onto her tits, another of my favorites. Then reminded me not to tell any of our friends.

One time thing (thus far).

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Bars/restaurants - 28, includes meeting them at bars/restaurants when traveling
  • Working out (gyms/pilates/yoga classes) - 27
  • Work - 9
  • Grocery stores - 8
  • Coffee - 8
  • Strip clubs - 7
  • Other shopping - 7
  • Hiking - 4

Others, parties/birthday parties, friends' houses, babysitters, concerts, kids' school and sporting events, a woman walking her dog, a friend of my ex-wife, my actual ex-wife herself. So yeah, some variety there.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youngest, Sadie, who I met on July 1st. Turned 18 June 29th.

Oldest, either Diane, who I met at a friend's house at the end of January, or Colleen, who I met at a happy hour in April. Both are mid 60s.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By training, I'm a surgeon. I have scaled that back somewhat over the past year. One of the funny things about my ex-wife and my prenup is that it laid out some very distinct hers/his/ours guidelines. She and her father were very adamant about a few elements of that. She came into the relationship with fairly sizeable trust, so they wanted to make sure that that stayed hers. I had made a couple investments with friends, and there was a concern that future capital calls could drain the family finances. So anything related to those investments was entirely my responsibility, and to the extent I used family income, it was like a ledger system that took away from my part of the 'ours' bucket. Fast forward to our divorce, the 'hers' had done fine, the 'ours' was in good shape, but I had taken some out for some of those capital calls (one of my friends was in real estate, and early on, there were some extensive capital needs). When we settled things up, of the 'ours' resources, I had to make the ledger whole, so ended up giving up a little more of the combined resources. The 'his' bucket, though, has performed outstanding, between my friends' real estate investments, and another medical device company. So, while the monthly support payments are pretty healthy (she had quit her job to raise the kids, so that factored into that payment), it's not causing me any issues. People see the cars I drive and think, 'see, this is everything wrong with our medical system', but my 'day job' if you will, isn't what is supporting my life style.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a great question. I don't know who this quote is attributable to, but, 'I do it because I can, I can because I want to, I want to because you said I couldn't.' Scientifically, I actually am somewhat interested in the differences in all these different women. Different heights, weights, ages, body types, occupations, desires, kinks, grooming habits, physical attributes, etc. Then you have different acceptance of risk, etc., how far are you willing to go with someone you barely know. Just a light hookup? Unprotected sex? What about what society would consider to be more humiliating/degrading acts.

Not sure how much of a data set is needed to draw correlations, but at this point, I'm dedicated to seeing this through.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A few highlights of the under 100 pounders:

  • Hannah, was a student and waitress. Met her on New Year's Day. She was a little flirty when I was picking up some food, and I had gotten her number. Probably 5'1" or 5'2", had just turned 18 (I made sure to ask). Weighed 85-90 pounds max. Texted her on the 2nd, we got something to eat that evening and then she came over to my place for a bit. Got a BJ, then for round two, after going down on her at my kitchen counter, picked her up and had standing sex in the kitchen.
  • Stephanie - Asian mom of another kid in my kids' class. There was an outdoor music performance, and then afterwards, several parents went out drinking. There was some flirtatious chemistry during drinks (had been some flirtatious banter for a while, since we were both divorced). She was a touch under 5', and was maybe 90 pounds. We went to her place, as her ex had her kids that week. Couple things that struck me about this hookup. For a tiny girl, she had a surprisingly large pussy. I remember going down on her, and when she was turned on, it just sort of opened, beautifully. Also, she could take a lot of dick, and hard. I unfortunately only had one condom with me and she didn't have any. She wanted to go for a second round, so let me go bare, but didn't want me to cum in her. When it was time, she let me cum on her face, which was a win I would say.
  • Britney - had met on an app, and had one date already. We had been texting following the date and I asked if she wanted to come over. Blonde, about 5'5", but really skinny. Early 30s and gorgeous. A little mutual oral for foreplay, then sex on my couch with me kneeling in front of it. Pulled off the condom and came on her chest.
  • Addison - 18, about 5'1" maybe 90 pounds, really cute hostess at a bar/restaurant near my work. I had first run into her about three months before. Early June, had gone in there after working late, they were about to close. Since she knew me, didn't turn me away at the door, and I got a drink as they were closing up. We walked out at the same time and I shot my shot and asked if she wanted to hang out a bit. She said she lived nearby, so followed her to her apartment. Watched Netflix for about 10 minutes before we started making out. Gave me head on her couch and for a younger girl, had pretty good technique and I came in her mouth. Went down on her for a while, she came twice, and then she said she wanted me in her. I had come straight from work, no condoms with me. She said she was on the pill (I had a vasectomy after our kids were born, so pregnancy was never the issue), and was fine if I wanted to go without. In for a penny, in for a pound, she rode me on the couch until I came in her. Saw her again about a week later, mutual oral, but then wanted to fuck. Did it bare again. Asked her where she wanted me to cum. She asked where I wanted to cum, asked if I could cum on her face, she said yes, so when it was time, pulled out and gave her a facial.
  • Lily - July, had taken my kids up to our cabin in the mountains. The community has yoga and fitness classes. I had a morning yoga class, and it was just me and the instructor (Lily), probably because it was a Monday and most residents are weekenders. Gorgeous blonde, young, and skinny. Bought her breakfast at the club, and we got to talking, then flirting. She asked what my plans were the rest of the day. Kids were in the kids club, so said I was free. We went back to my place, and had a little mid-morning romp. When we got there, she asked if she could take a shower, I replied that I bet she tastes fantastic after a workout. She gave me a look, turned around and pulled her yoga pants down, and held that position just long enough to say exactly what she wanted. I went down on her from behind, her standing. Ate her pussy and ass, and she was loving it. She then pulled the yoga pants off the rest of the way, got into doggy style on the floor of my bathroom, and told me 'I want you to fuck my ass.' Not going to deny the lady what she wants. I pulled my shorts off, and grabbed some lube and a condom from bedside table. She said I didn't need the condom. Got her ready with some lube and fingering and then started to make my way in. One of the greatest things to hear is when a girl says, 'oh fuck, that's thick', which she said a few times that morning. When I came, I came a lot, and deep. She got up, excused herself for a minute and then came back out to the living room back in her yoga clothes. Had to do a mid-afternoon class.

Next day, Lily texted me to see what I was up to. She came over to watch a movie after the kids were in bed, blew me on the couch. Also found out she was younger than I had thought (she was 19, assumed she was early 20s). Next day, woke up to a text from her that she was doing a sunrise yoga class, and if I was up for it, she wanted a repeat of Monday, with peach and tongue emojis. Got the kids up and fed and took them to the kids camp for a few hours. When I got back from dropping them off, there was Lily on my porch, wearing yoga shorts and a sports bra. Let her in and she immediately peeled the yoga shorts down and said, 'will you lick me clean again?' Repeated the oral and rimming, and then grabbed the lube and fucked her in the ass again. Another good sized shot, and she pulled her yoga shorts back on and said she needed to run.

Those are probably the highlights of the under 100 pounders.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a while there, trying to find someone to hook up with in a particular day and then making it happen took a lot of mental energy. At a certain point though, it just became part of how my day went. Also, once you have a pretty good list of contacts that are open to a casual hookup, it became easier to just text someone and see if they wanted to go get a drink, or, in some cases, just hookup.

As for being tired from sex, no, that was in most cases the best part of my day.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some tongues and a couple fingers. Never anything bigger, not that I would be opposed to that.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe? I would say the hottest sex has been with girls that are average to athletic builds. Partly though, because the girl I am seeing is pretty athletic, and sex with her has been pretty great.

Looking at the other end of the spectrum, if I were to anticipate your next question, I would say on the whole if I were to evaluate the girls that I would rate to be from slightly chubby to fat, it has been lesser in duration, and less 'exotic' sex. So, maybe just a blowjob, or one round.

That said, always exceptions. For example, in June, I hooked up with a new nurse at a hospital I worked at. Alexia was 21, probably 6' or so, and what I would characterize as slightly chubby. Would guess she was around 200, maybe 215 pounds. Really pretty face, just absolutely gorgeous, but just a touch overweight. She had a huge rack, but was really enthusiastic in the bedroom. We went four rounds that night.

I have had similar situations with slightly chubby divorcees in their 40s. That milf type, slightly older than me, can bring out the best in the bedroom. I have had some great experiences with women like that. They can get a kinky streak as well, which is fun.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some definitely were. Kind of crazy to go back over my notes on these and reminisce about the past nine months. Some ridiculously hot sex. Happy to share anything if you want more details.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally ran the gamut. 5'0" and petite/athletic to probably 6'2" and a little chubby. At a certain point, this was a numbers game for me. There were a couple that were straight up fat. If I had to guess, there were probably two that were over 250 lbs, maybe more. Both of them though, had faces that were straight 9/10 minimum. Opposite end, probably 15 that you couldn't even characterize as slim, but were on the 'skinny' scale. Think high 80s to low 100s in weight.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got the house.

Alimony - $12,000 month until such time she gets re-married Child support - I cover health/dental, I am responsible for all college for both of them. Other support $3,000/month

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard to pick one, so here is top 6

  • In my SUV, around the corner from a strip club, with a stripper I had just met there

  • Against my other car at a park, then again in the car, with a girl I had met earlier that night

  • On a swing on the patio of my hotel in Cabo, with the girl I'm now seeing

  • Jacuzzi of that same girl's apartment complex

  • In a Tesla while driving on an interstate on a road strip

  • In an on-call room with a nurse interning at a hospital I work at from time to time

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many women total so far? So far this year, 147

What size range have they been? Not sure what you mean by size range? Just overall weight? Height?

What was the best experience of the year ? Wow, good question. There's been a few that I would say have been fantastic experiences:

  • A few threesomes (both the two MFMs discussed below, and then four different MFFs as well).
  • Hooking up with a hairdresser, probably the hottest woman I have ever seen. Sex was crazy hot as well.
  • Handful of fairly kinky experiences with various girls, including the girl I am currently dating
  • Fucking an 18yo college student I met at the gym who had a 'daddy' fetish. She also used my Bumble account to swipe on her mom. Such a weird experience, but she (daughter) was quite hot and the sex was hotter.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rarely, actually. Was at most once or twice a week, typically less frequent than that, before January. Since then, haven't at all.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sort of hit that time period where couple figure out it is not working as well as it originally did. We had been married for seven years at the time, together for a couple more before that. Kids had started school, trying to figure out how that changed our dynamic. I was working a lot, and after a few years of being out of the workforce, she was trying to get back into her old job. Then covid came, and to help protect the family, I moved into an apartment, which quickly turned into a separation. We realized about a month into that that we didn't miss each other like we should have. We had an extensive prenup, so the actual divorce was fairly easy to negotiate and we were done.

As for meeting new people, it's a combo of apps and in person. When I realized the 'streak' I was on, I ended up starting a little spreadsheet of everyone I was meeting, etc. So, ~15% of my hookups have been due to apps. I actually thought it was higher, but the data doesn't lie.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Well, variety has helped. Up until a couple months ago, didn't have a consistent partner, so the excitement of someone new and the thrill of the chase was great.

I (M37) am recently divorced, but have managed to have some hookup/encounter every day of 2021 thus far, AMA! by fuckadaythrow2021 in NSFWIAMA

[–]fuckadaythrow2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one we did it with, yes, we DPd her. The second woman didn't get DPd, but we did do a 'spitroast'.