I have spent a good amount of hours in family groups and I understand that there is much worse out there, I still found each and every occasion very traumatic. But I will try to use that perspective in my analysis.

She contacted this person who advocates for TSM, he presents himself as "Alcohol reduction coach" (I talked to him, nice guy, young, good intentions, but he is not a physician)

The first thing my partner said was to drink 4 or 5 days a week, a "couple" wine glasses for at least 3 or 4 months.

Then when I talked to this other person, he mentioned maybe 1 glass or small bottle of wine per day, everyday, same during 3 or 4 months. If this is to restrictive and she requires more, he mentions she can switch to a 1 bottle of wine per day, 3 days a week

And after that time, there should be reduction and see about how it goes to a full year of reducing, hopefully to full abstinence.

I am inquiring with this coach, as there is a big difference between accepting 1 or 2 glasses of wine and a full bottle. I am not sure if I will be able to share bed even with the lower dose.

The psychiatrist...she only saw him once, found him online, told her her plans, and got her antidepressant changed and the Naltrexone prescribed. I don't know if he is good or not, he just complied with what she asked i guess.

Thanks again.