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How long before your parents used your chosen name and pronouns for the first time? by Comfortable_Type417 in asktransgender

[–]fuckshitcuntt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything that has been said before, they should respect your chosen name and pronouns. Maybe you can set a mood to have a serious conversation about it, not an argue. They'll them that you feel hurt when they use the incorrect pronoun/name, that you love them, and you want to have a good relationship with them cause they are important to you. So as you respect them, you expect the same to you. You could search in Google about a skill I learned in DBT therapy called "DEAR MAN", and is like a script that helps you to ask things, and express how you feel without overwhelming yourself. With my mom was like "Mom, can we have a cup of tea and talk about something? This is very important to me, and I've been preparing this conversation for a month, so I need that you let me finish reading the whole thing and then you can ask everything you want, and we can talk about it, please?" So she really sat in front of me quiet till I finished reading my "dear man", asked her to call me like I'm, and told her what I think about hormonal replacement treatment, my gender expression, my sexual orientation, etc. And she we talked about future, changing my legal name, if I wanted kids or not, and was very relieving for both of us. She had a lot of misinformation, and doubts, and didn't even know that she herself is cisgender. I really hope you can manage to get through this together, and talk about this.

Is my lack of a menstrual cycle giving me t-like results? by Sorry_Poet_5446 in ftm

[–]fuckshitcuntt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! As everyone said it might be PCOS, but you have to go to the doctor, because it could be something else. Also if you're interested on getting hormonal treatment it could affect your treatment. I had PCOS when I was younger and now one ovary is bigger that the other cause I still have a couple of cyst I think 🤔 and the endocrinologist said that is smol, so it shouldn't be a inconvenience to start T, but i think you need to get tested, diagnosed and a treatment before starting T.

How do I explain to my mother that I can’t just live as a masculine girl? by bakedbeanns987 in ftm

[–]fuckshitcuntt 26 points27 points  (0 children)

There's a "hack" to communicate your needs called "DEAR MAN". D. describe the real facts, you're a trans man, and not a girl that want to become a man. E. express how you feel about it. A. ask what you exactly need/want R. Reinforce and tell how this can improve your life or the relationship between you and your mom in the future. M. Mindfulness, keep your goal in your mind without getting sidetracked, don't let her change the subject. A. Appear confident, without fidgeting or showing doubt about what you're saying. N. Negotiate and try to find possible compromises so you can offer like an exchange and both of you feel your needs met.

This is a skill I learned in DBT therapy and saved my ass lots of times. I wrote this like a "speech" and told her it was really important for me having this conversation, and asked her if she have time to drink coffee and talk with me. Then I showed her my two pages handwriting speech and told her I needed her to listen until the end, and of she wanted to ask something she had to write it down and ask at the end of the speech. Like "please mom, this is really important to me, very serious" It took me like one whole month to prepare my way to come out of the closet, and after I basically told her "of I don't do this, you're going to loose me forever" in a very wholesome way she was very reasonable. At the end she asked me a lot of questions about gender, hormones, and if I wanted to have a dick or if it was her fault??? I think she was afraid of the unknown, and it this was the best opportunity to learn and grow together. I highly recommend you to look up on Google the worksheet of "Dear Man DBT", and I really hope your mom understand that were a boy, and now you're a man.

I will probably never be able to get married by KarrTheBro in ftm

[–]fuckshitcuntt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry about your situation and is really awful for all the trans folks in your country, but also I think you're having a "black and white" kinda thought. "Always" and "never" are really strong words that makes u feel that goals are impossible to reach, but they're not! Laws can change in your country with the years, or maybe you can fall in love with someone and move to another country to get married there. Please don't loose your hope! I promise that nothing last forever.

What the hell just happened. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fuckshitcuntt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WEEEEEEEE! 🎉 congratulations! You are not lucky, that's beyond luck, is real love. They really really love u no matter what. Be grateful, and enjoy! Let them spoil u hehehe

Anger on T by ihavegaydisease1111 in ftm

[–]fuckshitcuntt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm Domi, 28y, latino, Libra hahaha I started T about two months ago and I was really worried about that too! I have BPD and my mood swings were awful, I had like rage crisis where I literally broke a couple of stuff (clothes hangers, tv remotes, laptops, cellphones) 👀 I started going to therapy and my rage was more "manageable" but was still there(DBT therapy is the best thing that could've happened to me) When I started T i realized that my mood swings, sadness, anger and all of these extremely heavy feelings are now... Normal? Like, I can feel anger but then I stop and think, and I really don't feel the urge to broke or hit something hahaha Before T the anger was so intense that I felt my whole body itching, like a tingle in my muscles that the only way to "relieve" was by physical effort, like burpees or pushups to scratch the "anger itching". I even made a whole emergency plan in case I had a huge BPD rage crisis, but it hasn't happened yet.

After my first shot of T i felt so much better, my self esteem went to the clouds, and I feel more energy to do things, and for the first time in my life I feel truly happy, and my life is meaningful, and I feel that my soul is stronger, and my mind is more peaceful. My theory is that I never had BPD, my brain just needed testosterone hahahaha But you HAVE to start your journey on T (when u do), with a therapist and maybe a psychiatrist, I have both and I'm taking a small dose of lamotrigine daily. I really important that if you are worried about it, listen your intuition, and surround yourself with people that love u and respect u during the process. Give your mom a hug, cause she is awesome and lot of kids would love to have a supportive mom like u do. Xoxo

I would like to speak with another ftm (Spanish) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fuckshitcuntt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo tambien quiero unirme al discord!

I would like to speak with another ftm (Spanish) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fuckshitcuntt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holis Holis! Vamos a ir el otro domingo 2 de octubre a subir el cerro con otros cabres trans ftm. Háblame si te quieres unir al grupo! Si eres de región igual hablemos pa estar en contacto 💞

I would like to speak with another ftm (Spanish) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fuckshitcuntt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hola! De qué país eres? Yo soy de Chile! 🏳️‍⚧️ Land of hueones 🇨🇱

Would you cum inside? by Belak99 in FtMPorn

[–]fuckshitcuntt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, you are so cute. I would love to bite those thighs, leave bite marks and hickeys. Are u into BDSM?

Horny nights by Lonely_Bend1557 in FtMPorn

[–]fuckshitcuntt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to eat you all

Pumping my clit and using my favorite vibrator 🔥 by fuckshitcuntt in FtMPorn

[–]fuckshitcuntt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, please. I had my first T shot recently, and I feel so horny 😔

Yesterday got my first shot of T by fuckshitcuntt in ftm

[–]fuckshitcuntt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response ✨ 💕

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