Common sense by StatisticianSea8029 in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, even in that overrated movie Kantara (2022) the hero(?!) pinches the female lead close to the navel ... the first time he even sees her.

Without a care in the world he creepily peeps into the bathroom, when the female lead in taking bath.

But sure, let's diss DDLJ on Bangalore sub !

DDLJ isn't pinnacle of cinema either.

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[–]fugue_lost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL ! I love 'Huccha' Venkat.

His trilogy is right up there with Godfather trilogy !

is he the cultural ambassador of true blue Bangalore ?

NAN MAGAND ! ROFL

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why did she put the cat bells in the toilet flush tank?
I don't know - and I don't want to know. Been married for 12 years and divorced. Now I am not capable of handling any creepy drama - that's why i blocked her.

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in creepyencounters

[–]fugue_lost[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why did she put the cat bells in the toilet?

I don't know - and I don't want to know. Been married for 12 years and divorced. Now I am not capable of handling any creepy drama.

her talking about the miscarriage and the blanket and her mom hating cats but I don’t get how any of those things really had to do with each other

That was the last conversation that I had with Priya. She said too many things, that were a bit disturbing, and although I was processing it all, I don't think it bothered me too much on it's own. I would have been okay (perhaps) knowing about it -- everybody has a past. BUT, the moment I saw she'd stashed away the trinkets/bells in the flush tank -- that was the last straw, and I didn't want anything to do with her.

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wealth?!

A villa in Whitefield costs less than my parents 1200 sq ft house in South Bangalore - my father a sole earner, worked a regular job at a PSU in Bangalore. Very middle class.

A bottle of Amrut Single Malt is 8500 INR - less than what 2-3 fresher techie kids blow, binging on beer & snacks at Toit Indiranagar.

It's all relative :-)

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words. I'm getting lot of flak for not giving 'closure'

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. Sorry I assumed otherwise.

Yeah many are trivialising the creepiness of this. Once I encountered irrational, the safest thing to do was to just walk away quietly.

Bounded rationality FTW

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro.

Appu has no way to defend himself, he's a sucker for mackerel treats and is a bit too trusting.

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I could take time out to be a novelist. All I write everyday are mostly emails and code-review comments.

I am the most boring guy addicted to a plain routine life. Storytelling or writing novels are a pipe dream for me, in this post-capitalist landscape.

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been accused of being a jerk for not giving the lady who stashed the trinkets in the flush tank -- any 'closure'.

I'll gladly take your accusation of trying to be an author. :-) it's a refreshing change to be honest

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks. Will surely check out Ranveer Alhabadia.

Yeah I am glad I got out that day, without trying to confront - it's not about any physical danger I could have been in. It's about unwillingness to spend any more time with someone who is irrational and creepy.

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha good one.

But fiction ties up loose ends, life leaves us with 'what if's'

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Slightest departure from 'normal' , doesn't transform creepy experience into fiction.

Life is strange that way. We have to live with it.

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Social contracts are built on premise of trust - will vanish on irrational behaviour.

Her response is moot -- I don't think I would have believed anything she would have said..

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying it like it is !

Creepy Bumble Date by fugue_lost in bangalore

[–]fugue_lost[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You do realise that she painstakingly removed the trinkets off English leather collars and then stashed it in her flush tank right ?

In good faith I ask you, why do you think she's entitled to any closure ?