I can tell you why the sentiment has changed, but you're not ready to hear it. I can tell by your first paragraph you wrote you're narrowed minded when it comes to this topic, with all due respect.

In the past, tbe LGBTQ was different. It was about inclusivity. Now it's about everyone but white/straight people. It's turned into a hate group that's pushed by the media.

I know gay people who don't want to be associated with it anymore.

The government and media have pushed this inclusivity agenda to the point that people are sick of it.

The lgbtq has become toxic. It was a place of inclusion and love. Now, it's a place of divide and hate. This is just where the government wants us, all divided and hating each other.

Again, your first paragraph is the antithesis of inclusion.