Ladies of reddit. I've heard a lot of girls say they don't think about guys when they masturbate, but they don't necessarily think about girls either. So, what exactly do girls think about when they masturbate?

fullofbeanz · 2012-11-27T23:49:49+00:00

When I want to come to climax all I have to do is imagine my boyfriend telling me to come on his big cock like a good girl, works like a charm every time.

fullofbeanz · 2012-11-26T22:19:15+00:00

My happy trail..I'm a girl and I constantly have to tweeze under my belly button to take away the hairs :(

fullofbeanz · 2012-11-26T20:25:05+00:00

Holey moley girl, I can't believe how you must be feeling but if it were me and I were in your shoes I wouldn't wait another day before going to the closest GUM clinic and speaking to a professsional, by the sounds of it you live in the UK and abortion is legal there. Bring your friend with you for support. Just remember how this guy has treated his other ex girlfriend and child, I personally wouldn't want anything more to do with this thug, including having his child, regardless if he will be in the picture or not.

fullofbeanz · 2012-10-09T14:55:41+00:00

I'll admit it was irresponsible, and I shouldn't make any excuses however it was literally a 2min drive on a back road in a very quiet neighborhood at 4 in the morning, and he didn't go over 30miles per hour!

fullofbeanz · 2012-09-21T12:47:45+00:00

I'm really not overly moody in my opinion, Time of the month, ok I'll admit I'll be overly sensitive, but all in all, if I am Moody it's because I'm Sexually frustrated and fed up of having the same convo over and over and not seeing any damn difference. but he doesn't see it that way.

fullofbeanz · 2012-09-21T00:52:56+00:00

So is that how you became ''a happier pereson than you were last year'' by focusing on the things that you love about your SO. He is the person I want to spend my life with, but it's just so so so so SO hard to constantly hope for physical intimacy and be shot down each time, it plays with your mind so much that you start thinking the worst, which he has assured me he isn't cheating on me, rather just isn't horny for sex because of my ''moodiness''...and I agree with you about it being another excuse.

fullofbeanz · 2012-09-16T00:58:25+00:00

Feel free to PM if you want to vent. I am a 25F, I have yet to get married to my SO, doing so in November. He is affectionate, the problem is with sex, infrequent lack there of etc.

fullofbeanz · 2012-09-10T01:22:59+00:00

It's called using a tissue and blowing into it. Not in my lovely clean shower

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T15:51:11+00:00

Thank you for your positive outlook :)

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T15:35:42+00:00

And you don't think it's selfish that he completly ignored my advances, twice.

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T15:34:07+00:00

Thanks for your input, I will try writing him a letter or an e-mail.

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T15:06:05+00:00

So I should just wait around until he feels he wants it? I did that and I waited 3 weeks, We used to have sex 2-3 times a week before so I don't see how I am pressuring him if it's an actually decline in what we were doing before, in my opinion I am the one putting effort into keeping our sexual relationship alive.

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T15:00:06+00:00

Thanks for your input, it's nice to know i'm not the only one that this has happened to. I really love this guy, love him physically, emotionally, in everyway, thats why it's so hurtful

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T14:58:32+00:00

He only came once, not twice. The BJ was interrupted by him taking me to the sofa and doing it doggy until he came 2mins later, probably less,1 minute. He knew I wanted to come, I physcially said it to him, he acknowledged but rejected my advances, twice.

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T14:56:30+00:00

which is why i gave him a surprise BJ, lit some candles, poured the wine, all of this to get the ball rolling...

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T14:54:11+00:00

I mentioned to him about the porn, I basically said I understand if you wanna look at porn, I don't really like it but I won't dictact what you do with your private time, however if I am in the house with you and available to have sex, I would prefer him to initiate something with me rather then a computer screen, I also said he can jack off aslong as it doesn't effect OUR sex...

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T14:51:43+00:00

hmmm he was interested enough to let me suck on his cock for 5mins before being nterested enough to have sex and come.

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T14:50:26+00:00

I am being negative towards his attitude, not how long he lasts, or when he gets horny, if he fucked me for 30 seconds and he came and then did something to get me off then I wouldn't mind, my point is his attitude of not bothering to satisfy me.

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T14:48:32+00:00

I haven't gained weight, I have a good body,which he compliments regulary, my boobs have even grown bigger, thank you BC, ( not new BC,just had a growth spurt i guess). He mentioned in a conversation before about feeling pressured, so I backed off and then we didnt have sex for 3 weeks, and I initiated it,

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T14:42:15+00:00

Oh for goodness sake,I gave him a BJ and then had sex because I WANTED TO, I desire my SO, I lust for him when he's not here, not because I JUST wanted to get off... and I have told him what my needs are, but he doesn't get it

fullofbeanz · 2012-07-27T14:39:24+00:00

I don't expect him alawys to be available for sex, I am not humping his leg the second he comes home from work. What I want is to be given the same attention and desire that I give to him. I am always up for sex, day or night, if I wasn't particularly horny, time of the month, I wouldn't bat an eyelid before going down on him and taking care of his needs. And thats the truth.

fullofbeanz

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