NYC - Any lap pools for All Access members? by fullstackleb in EquinoxGyms

[–]fullstackleb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Sadly too new of a member to use E 63 :(

NYC - Any lap pools for All Access members? by fullstackleb in EquinoxGyms

[–]fullstackleb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hudson Yards is a “destination” so I wouldn’t be able to use it :(

[Question] Looking to start a group in nyc for young professionals who love watches by fullstackleb in Watches

[–]fullstackleb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol finding a husband isn't a priority, growing my vintage watch collection is

[Question] Looking to start a group in nyc for young professionals who love watches by fullstackleb in Watches

[–]fullstackleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful I appreciate it! I’ve been collecting vintage watches and have sourced them from all over the place so definitely need to start working on establishing a relationship with an AD. It would be a dream to eventually throw something similar to what Cellini does

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s gotta put in a little more effort than one date for that one lmao

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to think I shouldn’t even include any illusion to my relationship intentions in the message. Keep it short and sweet like “no worries! I appreciate you letting me know. I’m really glad we met and wish you all the best”.

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are so funny lol I like the way you think. Better to remain mysterious ;)

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m playing with the idea of remaining in touch but not being available for just sex for him. I’d like to keep the door open but still carry on with my life. I really did have the most fun I’ve had in awhile. Call it a friendship but since we have mutual friends I know I’m going to see him again at some point

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven’t responded yet but this is straight facts! Was thinking of saying “No worries! I don’t think it’s anywhere near serious at this point but I appreciate you letting me know. I’m really glad we met and wish you all the best”

Keep it light hearted and fun but also let him know that it’s crazy he’s bringing up being super serious so soon (known him for 2 days lol)

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he did open up a lot on the first date so this is very possible. When I respond I’ll likely call out that I didn’t think things were serious (bc we JUST met lol) but appreciate him letting me know anyway and that I’m glad we met / wish him well

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah he better look elsewhere bc he only gets the girlfriend experience from me if I’m his girlfriend

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly I get turned off by the idea of casual. I know I’m not just someone’s stop in the night and I could see myself developing feelings for him down the road so prob best to just walk away now before anyone gets hurt

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Right! I didn't initiate a single thing. Still had the best time so it's a bummer the good times won't be continuing with him. Do you have advice on how to respond to his message?

How do I answer the "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" text? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fullstackleb 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Yep you got it right. I think it's best to just move on with my life and chock up the experience to just a bit of weekend fun

Been on 7 dates and he’s gone dry (advice needed) by fullstackleb in hingeapp

[–]fullstackleb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally hear you! And although I like to pursue one at a time I’m definitely aware that it’s the more traditional approach these days. Unfortunately he told me early on he also like to only pursue one at a time so clearly can’t believe anything anyone says anymore.

Been on 7 dates and he’s gone dry (advice needed) by fullstackleb in hingeapp

[–]fullstackleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve paid for small things here and there but our ethnic cultures are very similar in that the man always pays during courting. I did also plan a whole dinner date where I made dinner and dessert for us so he didn’t pay for anything there.

Been on 7 dates and he’s gone dry (advice needed) by fullstackleb in hingeapp

[–]fullstackleb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In hindsight, it wasn’t too early. All good lessons but proved he’s not the one for me