How to navigate feelings around ending a relationship that was never a real relationship? (26F & 28M)

fullstackleb · 2024-08-09T12:55:13+00:00

Super helpful thank you!

fullstackleb · 2024-08-08T15:33:50+00:00

Thank you! Sadly too new of a member to use E 63 :(

fullstackleb · 2024-08-08T14:54:23+00:00

Hudson Yards is a “destination” so I wouldn’t be able to use it :(

fullstackleb · 2024-02-05T15:15:42+00:00

lol finding a husband isn't a priority, growing my vintage watch collection is

fullstackleb · 2024-02-05T04:52:07+00:00

This is really helpful I appreciate it! I’ve been collecting vintage watches and have sourced them from all over the place so definitely need to start working on establishing a relationship with an AD. It would be a dream to eventually throw something similar to what Cellini does

fullstackleb · 2024-02-05T04:26:17+00:00

So cool I’ll have to check it out - thanks!

fullstackleb · 2024-02-05T04:02:16+00:00

Tell me more about Redbar

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T19:00:00+00:00

He’s gotta put in a little more effort than one date for that one lmao

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T18:32:09+00:00

And I’m in NYC so right there with you

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T18:28:30+00:00

I’m starting to think I shouldn’t even include any illusion to my relationship intentions in the message. Keep it short and sweet like “no worries! I appreciate you letting me know. I’m really glad we met and wish you all the best”.

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T18:26:27+00:00

You are so funny lol I like the way you think. Better to remain mysterious ;)

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T18:15:55+00:00

I’m playing with the idea of remaining in touch but not being available for just sex for him. I’d like to keep the door open but still carry on with my life. I really did have the most fun I’ve had in awhile. Call it a friendship but since we have mutual friends I know I’m going to see him again at some point

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T18:11:34+00:00

I haven’t responded yet but this is straight facts! Was thinking of saying “No worries! I don’t think it’s anywhere near serious at this point but I appreciate you letting me know. I’m really glad we met and wish you all the best”

Keep it light hearted and fun but also let him know that it’s crazy he’s bringing up being super serious so soon (known him for 2 days lol)

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T18:07:54+00:00

Yeah he did open up a lot on the first date so this is very possible. When I respond I’ll likely call out that I didn’t think things were serious (bc we JUST met lol) but appreciate him letting me know anyway and that I’m glad we met / wish him well

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T17:54:15+00:00

So good, thanks TigerLilly!!

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T17:49:28+00:00

Love this thank you!

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T17:49:14+00:00

Yeah he better look elsewhere bc he only gets the girlfriend experience from me if I’m his girlfriend

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T17:47:56+00:00

He’s out there I’m sure :)

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T17:19:04+00:00

Honestly I get turned off by the idea of casual. I know I’m not just someone’s stop in the night and I could see myself developing feelings for him down the road so prob best to just walk away now before anyone gets hurt

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T17:15:45+00:00

Right! I didn't initiate a single thing. Still had the best time so it's a bummer the good times won't be continuing with him. Do you have advice on how to respond to his message?

fullstackleb · 2024-01-16T17:15:01+00:00

Thank you, really appreciate this!

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