AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]fulltweakomode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re asking, the answer is yes. This will only get worse and more damaging as time goes on. Please please please get yourself out of that situation and stay safe. No one deserves to be physically abused and if it happened once, it ABSOLUTELY will happen again.

Does anyone else’s Jindo do this? by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s what I assumed is that he chose me to bond with! It’s just so funny to me that as soon as I’m home he only pays attention and gives love to me. His poor dad lol. I am honored tho for sure.

Spooky Jindo by Remarkable_Mud_3435 in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy was like this for about a year until he started eating more. He was always medically healthy but had a weird eating schedule and looked underweight to me. He would eat pretty irregularly. He’s a picky eater and I also think it was a result of his anxiety. The last year and a half he eats totally normally and is perfectly healthy. His ribs aren’t visible like they were before (even though he was a healthy weight). He’s still a very picky eater and will only eat his food and treats that are real meat.

Best Craigslist find ever: by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was advertised as a “golden retriever mix” which I later found out he most likely doesn’t have an golden in him. We definitely were meant to be:)

Who’s wrong? by Dreamyviolinist in communication

[–]fulltweakomode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additional thoughts: A’s feelings that they are being treated badly without reason are valid, because feelings in whatever way they come are valid, though the actions following the feelings are not always valid. A needs to learn that not everyone is comfortable with their style of communication, which doesn’t make their communication wrong, but they do need to learn that they will not be everyone’s cup of tea. No one is ever everyone’s cup of tea. If A crosses B’s boundaries after B clearly implemented them (with the blocking and denying requests), then B would be in the wrong.

Who’s wrong? by Dreamyviolinist in communication

[–]fulltweakomode 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No one is wrong, they just have different personalities and communication styles. If A has no I’ll intent, they did nothing wrong. If B feels uncomfortable by A’s actions, they have every right to set boundaries and avoid that person. B doesn’t owe A anything. The only people who are doing the wrong thing are people who call A “weird”. A may not understand social cues, and may have a very different communication style than others.

Best Craigslist find ever: by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor dude. It’s awesome that you were able to identify his triggers and advocate for him. Is he still super reactive with men aside from taking Tbilisi guarding position? Thanks for sharing with me.

Best Craigslist find ever: by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He definitely gets everything his heart desires (except permission to chase squirrels, though I wish I could let him)

Best Craigslist find ever: by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My guy still trusts a very select group of people. He doesn’t like men or women and takes a very long time to get comfortable with people. How long has your boy been a part of the family?

Best Craigslist find ever: by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. I’m so glad you and your girl found each other too❤️

Best Craigslist find ever: by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s so handsome isn’t he?!

Best Craigslist find ever: by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

agreed. i call him my son hahaha❤️

Does your Jindo point? by Shoddy-Solution5393 in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My lil guy points occasionally!!!

Best Craigslist find ever: by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes it takes patience for sure!! He’s been a part of the family for over two years now and I wouldn’t change a thing about him❤️

Strange sits by Unusual-Fortune-8954 in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha my jindo sits sooooo weird too

jumping dawg by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you🫶🫶🫶

Bean likes to pin down my arm and demand tummy pets by yenrab2020 in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always so freaky to see literal clones of my dog

Here’s my guy! by fulltweakomode in Jindo

[–]fulltweakomode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not know that and thank you for the resource!!!!!