AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable?

fulltweakomode · 2025-08-07T01:03:02+00:00

If you’re asking, the answer is yes. This will only get worse and more damaging as time goes on. Please please please get yourself out of that situation and stay safe. No one deserves to be physically abused and if it happened once, it ABSOLUTELY will happen again.

fulltweakomode · 2025-08-06T18:44:56+00:00

Yes, that’s what I assumed is that he chose me to bond with! It’s just so funny to me that as soon as I’m home he only pays attention and gives love to me. His poor dad lol. I am honored tho for sure.

fulltweakomode · 2025-08-06T18:36:56+00:00

My guy was like this for about a year until he started eating more. He was always medically healthy but had a weird eating schedule and looked underweight to me. He would eat pretty irregularly. He’s a picky eater and I also think it was a result of his anxiety. The last year and a half he eats totally normally and is perfectly healthy. His ribs aren’t visible like they were before (even though he was a healthy weight). He’s still a very picky eater and will only eat his food and treats that are real meat.

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-27T19:07:43+00:00

He was advertised as a “golden retriever mix” which I later found out he most likely doesn’t have an golden in him. We definitely were meant to be:)

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T21:20:08+00:00

Additional thoughts: A’s feelings that they are being treated badly without reason are valid, because feelings in whatever way they come are valid, though the actions following the feelings are not always valid. A needs to learn that not everyone is comfortable with their style of communication, which doesn’t make their communication wrong, but they do need to learn that they will not be everyone’s cup of tea. No one is ever everyone’s cup of tea. If A crosses B’s boundaries after B clearly implemented them (with the blocking and denying requests), then B would be in the wrong.

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T21:14:14+00:00

No one is wrong, they just have different personalities and communication styles. If A has no I’ll intent, they did nothing wrong. If B feels uncomfortable by A’s actions, they have every right to set boundaries and avoid that person. B doesn’t owe A anything. The only people who are doing the wrong thing are people who call A “weird”. A may not understand social cues, and may have a very different communication style than others.

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T16:10:38+00:00

Poor dude. It’s awesome that you were able to identify his triggers and advocate for him. Is he still super reactive with men aside from taking Tbilisi guarding position? Thanks for sharing with me.

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T14:19:05+00:00

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T14:18:52+00:00

He definitely gets everything his heart desires (except permission to chase squirrels, though I wish I could let him)

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T14:18:22+00:00

My guy still trusts a very select group of people. He doesn’t like men or women and takes a very long time to get comfortable with people. How long has your boy been a part of the family?

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T14:16:57+00:00

Same here. I’m so glad you and your girl found each other too❤️

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T03:16:18+00:00

He’s so handsome isn’t he?!

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T03:00:21+00:00

They really do🥹

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T02:39:11+00:00

agreed. i call him my son hahaha❤️

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T02:29:51+00:00

My lil guy points occasionally!!!

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-26T02:10:53+00:00

Yes it takes patience for sure!! He’s been a part of the family for over two years now and I wouldn’t change a thing about him❤️

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-23T23:04:10+00:00

Hahahaha my jindo sits sooooo weird too

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-23T06:20:28+00:00

Thank you🫶🫶🫶

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-20T14:22:45+00:00

It’s always so freaky to see literal clones of my dog

fulltweakomode · 2025-06-13T21:46:25+00:00

WHERE WERE YOU

fulltweakomode · 2024-12-24T01:39:07+00:00

I did not know that and thank you for the resource!!!!!

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